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Doing less to accomplish more this year

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We are well into 2015 but wishing you a Happy New Year in February is still in order. I want to share with you this month my resolution for this year, which I have promised myself to stick with and hopefully after reading through these paragraphs you will be convinced to try it. I have resolved and pledged to do less this year and achieve more. Sounds like a contradiction! If you have heard about the 80/20 Rule you will grasp my thoughts, but will come to that in a moment.

First let me explain why I want to do less for more this year. At the close of each year, I take time to evaluate my personal and business goals performance and also plan for the coming year. Most organisations do, I am not sure about individuals. It was during my quiet time at the holiday resort where we spent the New Year that I got talking to myself, having a real serious conversation with me.

After many years of running on the treadmill, when will I press the stop button? Do I need to anyway, or should I just adjust the speed or programme? When we are so busy getting on with our lives and trying to achieve our goals and dreams, we sometimes forget to pause and ask – are we really happy with the way we do things? Can they be done in other ways to achieve the same or even better results? How often do we evaluate our lives and ask what actually brings us pleasure and enjoyment, and what robs us of our peace of mind, time and energy?

After this long and hard conversation, I agreed with me that my life sometimes feels like being on a treadmill, in motion, yes, working very hard, yes, but not going anywhere. It is just hard work and more hard work with little time for things that are important and really matter to me.

And this brings me back to the 80/20 Rule. Created by Italian economist Vilfredo Pareto (1848-1923), it is simply a mathematical formula to show that 80 percent of results come from 20 percent of time and effort. Pareto’s Principle or Law, as it is sometimes referred, affirms that in anything, the few (20 percent) are vital and the many (80 percent) are trivial. It is a law than can be applied to business and all other aspects of life to bring far-reaching impact.

And so my resolve this year is to identify the 20 percent of every aspect of my life that matters and focus on it. This means evaluating my life in total, not an easy thing to do. For example, I observed my phone calls for one day in the month of December – the people I spoke to, the subject matter and what the conversation yielded – and it was revealing to know I wasted a good portion of my day on totally unnecessary calls and discussions. I also looked at things I did on that same day and how I did them and realised I could have achieved my goals for the day by concentrating on fewer more important things than embracing so much.

While I am quite clear about my three most important priorities in my life – my relationships (with God, family and friends), my health and my work, I am not sure I am doing my best to achieve them in the most satisfactory and fulfilling way. These three make me wake up each morning looking forward to the day ahead. And so I need to ensure I do all three in ways that produce the desired results in the most effective and enjoyable manner.

Using Pareto’s rule, I want to have more rewarding relationships with those I love and deeply care for (the 20 percent). I can only do this by eliminating the energy-sapping 80 percent. This is the group you spend most of your time, energy and money on, yet they create most of the challenges you face. They drain you with their never-ending ‘wants’, ‘needs’ and ‘entitlements’, some are toxic as all they do is feed you on gossip (‘to put you in the know’) and at the end of the day leave you hurting and unhappy. I don’t want these people in my life this year. I want to do the things I love doing with people who make my life happy and worthwhile.

I want to ask myself the same question on the work front: Which 20 percent of sources are resulting in 80 percent of desired outcomes? Can I identify the 80 percent sources of challenges and eliminate them? Are there employees draining my energy and not making a contribution towards achieving desired goals? I want to spend my limited time managing the superstars at work and rewarding them. I want to spend my time helping good people become better rather than struggling with mediocrity. I don’t want to just “work smart” but work smart on the right things.

And so this year, I will think carefully about how to eliminate the people/things/events that are not important and redirect my energy towards the things in the 20 percent group. I believe this shift will change my life as well as my work/life balance to give me more fulfillment.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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