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Many things, including stress, being over or underweight, medication, childbirth, or certain illnesses affect a woman’s monthly period. Women must therefore be prepared to deal with fluctuations that accompany the monthly cycle

Do you suffer each month from the turbulent emotions of pre-menstrual syndrome (PMS) followed by heavy and painful periods? Does this make you hate that time of month and curse why you were born a woman? Do you wonder whether it will get better or worse as you grow older? With an average of 500 cycles per lifetime, and as a woman who suffers painful periods, you are likely to be out looking for a cure or a way to cope with this depressing condition. There are no hard and fast rules when it comes to periods, as they are extremely individual. When teenage girls start their periods, some of them may have egg-less cycles and heavy bleeding accompanied by painful cramps. This is usually due to a temporary hormone imbalance, which eventually settles down.

The menstrual cycle may also be erratic for two or three years leading up to the menopause, again due to hormonal fluctuations – in this case, declining levels of oestrogen and progesterone. During a woman’s reproductive years, the length of her cycle may change from the average 28 days to 21 or 32 days, and, as menopause approaches, there could be three to four months between periods before they cease altogether. Some lucky women experience no period problems at all and others crossover to menopause without any eventful moments.

Lifestyle may affect periods

 

The 20s and 30s are likely to be the most stable time for a woman’s periods, but they can be affected by stress, weight gain or loss, medication, pregnancy and childbirth at any time. Stress can make hormones go haywire; so do not panic if you have a short cycle or one or two abnormal cycles. Instead, deal with the stressors in your life.

Weight gain can also make one prone to heavier periods and PMS, while losing too much weight can shut down the monthly system. The hypothalamus (an area in the brain that releases hormones) decides to save energy for other life-support systems, like the heart, when one is too skinny and her body weight is below normal. Often, women suffering from eating disorders such as anorexia do not get periods as their reproductive system shuts down. This is dangerous.

On the other hand, menstrual cramps can become less painful after childbirth, as the process of giving birth widens the cervical opening, making it easier to pass clots of blood. Medication can also affect periods. Antidepressants can make periods more painful, while steroids taken for rheumatoid arthritis can make periods stop. If medication affects one’s menstrual cycle, a doctor should be consulted for advise on whether to change or try a lower dosage.

PMS can increase during times of hormonal turbulence, such as puberty, changes in contraception, miscarriage, pregnancy termination and childbirth. PMS is an individual thing; although women aged 30 to 45 are more likely to have the most severe PMS. It is not known why, but it could be because our lives get more stressful as we grow older.

There should be no cause to panic when a cycle becomes irregular, heavier, lighter or absent, as this is often a temporary condition. However, a sudden onset of pain could indicate the existence of more serious conditions such as endometriosis, fibroids or uterine infection. It is important to know your body, as this way you are able to determine the ‘abnormal’ from the ‘normal’. If the pain means you cannot carry on with your life as normal, and painkillers are not working, get checked out, as there are many things a doctor can do to ease your pain.

You should not feel you have to surrender to a week of misery every month. There are many things you can do to ease the pain and lead as normal a life as possible during your periods. You can ease period symptoms by dealing with your diet, regular exercising and trying to reduce your stress levels as much as possible. If you lead a healthy lifestyle, chances are your periods will not be too destructive to your life.

Tips to help relieve menstrual pain

*If you have significant pain, non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs such as ibuprofen can reduce it together with accompanying blood loss by about 30 per cent. If you know when your period is going to kick in, start taking them the day before.

*Research shows than taking 200 IU of vitamin E twice a day can reduce pain and bleeding. It is said to work by reducing prostaglandins, and can be taken safely with painkillers.

*A contraceptive coil, which contains progesterone, is sometimes prescribed to reduce blood loss. It keeps the womb lining thin, so periods are lighter and less painful. *During a heavy flow, drink lots of liquids to keep your blood volume normal.

*Exercise can reduce cramps as it decreases the body’s oestrogen production.

*Learn to manage stress. This will lead to regular ovulation and sufficient progesterone, hence making periods light.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

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Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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