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A miscarriage invariably causes shock and distress, yet a staggering one in five pregnancies end this way. Miscarriage is a sad end to many pregnancies. We look at causes of miscarriage and give you advice on ways to cut risks.

A miscarriage, known in medical terms as spontaneous abortion, is the loss of a foetus before it is sufficiently developed to survive, which means any time up to 28 weeks. The majority of miscarriages take place in the first trimester that is before 14 weeks. They often happen at eight or 12 weeks, when a period would have come if you were not pregnant. Miscarriage during the second phase of pregnancy is far less common.

Many miscarriages may go unnoticed because they occur before even a woman suspects she may be pregnant. Telltale signs are a period that is a little late and heavier than normal. Most miscarriages start with bleeding and period-like pains in the lower back and stomach. Any bleeding or spotting during the first 28 weeks is called threatened miscarriage, but it does not mean you will necessarily lose the baby.

If you have a threatened miscarriage the doctor will advise you to take it easy with lots of rest and always put your feet up when resting. You will also be advised to avoid having intercourse for a few days until the bleeding stops. However, if the cervix starts to dilate you may be powerless to prevent a miscarriage.

A late miscarriage is caused by a weak or ’incompetent’ cervix, which relaxes when it should not. Such weakness may be the result of a previous termination of pregnancy carried out before the twelfth week, or a previous difficult labour. If you have an incompetent cervix, the doctor may recommend stitching up the cervix during any subsequent pregnancy to avoid miscarriage. The stitch is removed close to delivery or when the threat is no longer there.

It is often impossible to pinpoint the cause of a miscarriage. There is no evidence that arguing with your partner, being stressed, slipping on the staircase, vigorous exercise, being overtired or having an overactive sex life will make you miscarry. A plausible and consoling explanation is that the embryo is in some way defective and would not have survived birth. In other words, it is nature’s way of doing its work through a natural secretion.

More women than usual miscarry in early pregnancy during epidemics such as flu and stomach bugs, suggesting that fever coupled with a high temperature can increase the risk of miscarriage before 16 weeks. So it is important to avoid becoming run down and more susceptible to infection when you are pregnant. Certain forms of food poisoning may also harm the foetus and precipitate a miscarriage.

Spontaneous abortion may occur if the woman has untreated pelvic inflammatory disease (PID). Symptoms include marked tenderness of the uterus and lower abdomen, chills, fever and a low white blood cell count. PID needs to be treated with antibiotics so you must see a doctor for diagnosis and prescription. A septic miscarriage may follow an induced abortion where conditions have been unhygienic or may be due to genito-urinary infection or sexually transmitted diseases.

It is natural for the risk of miscarriage to increase as you get older. Some studies say that chances of miscarriage double between the twenties and early thirties, then double again between the early and late thirties. This may be because chromosomal abnormalities  such as Down’s Syndrome become more common with age. Lifestyle habits such as cigarette smoking, taking hard drugs and drinking alcohol may also place the foetus at risk.

For most women, miscarriage is a one-off tragedy, but for a few others it is a recurring thing. Any woman who has three or more miscarriages is said to be suffering from recurrent or habitual miscarriage and her chances of having another is 50-50. This may be due to some physical problem such as an inadequate production of progesterone or defect in the uterine lining, which prevents the implantation of the fertilised egg. The doctor may advice various investigative procedures to get to the root of the problem and have it dealt with.

To prevent miscarriages doctors give advice, which focuses on improving overall health of a woman wishing to have a baby. It is therefore important to consult a gynaecologist if you are planning to have a baby. The doctor will look at your nutritional status, assess your level of toxins such as lead in your body, test for allergic reactions and give you advice geared to your individual needs.

Women who miscarry often have low levels of minerals, particularly zinc and magnesium, high tissue loads of toxins such as lead and cadmium or a undiagnosed genito-urinary infection such as Chlamydia. If you are planning on having a baby, the doctor will advise you to give up smoking, taking drugs including over-the-counter drugs such as painkillers, and alcohol, come off the pill as it reduces zinc levels and eat fresh wholesome foods for at least six months before planning to conceive.

Self-nurturing steps

Indulge in nutrient-packed foods. Never skimp on calories or try to lose weight, especially in the early stages of pregnancy. Ensure your diet is healthy and rich in all nutrients. Eat lots of fruits, vegetables and pulses, and cut down on sugar and fat.
Prevent food poisoning by avoiding foods such as ripened soft cheese and ready-cooked meats, which are associated with listeria, as well as all raw meats, especially chicken, which have been linked to outbreaks of salmonella and toxoplasmosis. Also avoid eating in unhygienic places such as open-air food kiosks and ensure your food is well cleaned, especially salads. Observe hygiene when preparing food and always wash your hands before eating.
Learn and practice some form of relaxation to ease anxiety, such as yoga, meditation, mild exercise or relaxing in a warm scented bath.
Listen to your body. If you feel tired, rest for an hour in the afternoon and have an early night. Do not push yourself if you are feeling tired. Take a break until you have regained your energy levels.

Published on February 2013

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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