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Creating a bond with your child

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Every present parent knows that the love between a child and a parent is unmatched. In many cases, you will see parents doing their best to win their children over so that their relationship can be nothing less than warm. It would hurt a parent if their child gave them cold replies and reactions hence the need to create a strong bond with their young ones.

It becomes a challenging task to parents with more than one child, because every child is unique. Therefore, create time to bond with each child. Ask questions that are relevant and unique to them. As this sounds tasking, try having a conversation while having dinner. This way they will take turns taking and expressing their needs.

Here are a few tips on creating a strong bond with your child:

Pay attention

Have you ever been ignored when you badly needed someone to talk to? How did it feel? Now, imagine your only safe space ignoring you and threatening to beat you if you do not ‘behave.’ This is devastating to children. Taking a minute to hear your child out goes a long way. If you do not have time, then let them know, they will understand.

Boundaries

Just as relationships thrive on mutual respect so will the relationship with your child flourish. Knock before budging in. Close your eyes if they ask you to. It would be nice to know everything your child does or thinks, right? Wrong. Just as you and I have secrets, kids are allowed to have secrets. If you notice your child looks troubled, then you can remind them to come to you with their concerns. When they do open up, remember to first pay attention and then offer help.

Family fun activities

At whatever financial capacity, have things you do as a family. I remember the game drives we took as vividly as I remember helping Mum sieve tea. In this article, we highlighted the benefits of allowing your kids to participate in the kitchen.

Rapudo, a father and businessman, in an interview with ParentsAfrica, highlighted the benefits of playing with your children. He also reminded parents that playing with your kids requires the child in you.

To avoid physical and financial burnout, let them suggest places and activities they would love to do as a family. Depending on your pockets and energy level, you then decide what activity to embark on.

Be mindful of your words

As the new set of adults, we often joke that how you talk to yourself and how you let other people talk to you is a direct reflection of how your parents talked to you. Growing up, dark skin was shunned. I never felt ugly or undeserving regardless of the comments. At home, my mum washed and took care of my skin with love. Your words make and break your kids. No matter how angry you are, please breathe in and breathe out before responding.

From a former child transitioning to adulthood, I will always treasure the days my parents narrated their childhood stories. As children, we appreciate the warm meals you provide, the clothes on our backs, and the comfortable beds we have. But, we remember how your hugs feel, how your I love you sounds more. We remember when you last made us our favorite meal. And no, it does not stop when we grow up, I mean I am 24 and I look forward to the next salad my mum will prepare.

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Heartbreak as Body of 12-Year-Old Blessed Claire Muthoni Arrives Home from India

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Kenyans are mourning the loss of Blessed Claire Muthoni, a brave 12-year-old girl from Kihuri in Othaya, Nyeri County, who passed away while undergoing specialised cancer treatment in New Delhi. Claire had been fighting stage 4 cancer for over three years.

The aggressive disease took a heavy toll on her young body, eventually leading to the amputation of one of her legs. Despite the pain and the many challenges she faced, Claire remained hopeful and courageous throughout her journey, inspiring many who followed her story.

On January 19, 2026, she travelled to India with her mother in search of advanced treatment aimed at saving her remaining leg and managing the cancer that had spread to her lungs. The journey was filled with hope, supported by Kenyans from all walks of life who contributed towards her treatment and kept her in their prayers.

A brave fight

While in India, Claire underwent several chemotherapy sessions. Unfortunately, her condition worsened after developing complications, leading to her admission to the Intensive Care Unit. She passed away in hospital last week, leaving behind a grieving family and a nation that had stood with her.

On Monday, March 30, 2026, her remains arrived at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport. The atmosphere at the airport was filled with grief as family members, friends and well-wishers gathered to receive her. Her mother returned home alone, carrying a loss no parent should have to endure.

Claire will be laid to rest in her home area of Othaya in the coming days, as her family begins the difficult process of saying their final goodbyes.

Her story touched thousands across the country, many of whom followed her journey through updates and fundraising efforts. She became a symbol of strength and resilience, and her passing has deeply affected those who had hoped to see her recover.

Beyond the grief, her story has once again brought attention to the challenges families face when dealing with childhood cancer in Kenya. The high cost of specialised treatment, limited access to advanced care locally, and the emotional and financial strain on families often force many to seek treatment abroad.

Read our March issue here 

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Heartbreak as Body of 12-Year-Old Blessed Claire Muthoni Arrives Home from India

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Kenyans are mourning the loss of Blessed Claire Muthoni, a brave 12-year-old girl from Kihuri in Othaya, Nyeri County, who passed away while undergoing specialised cancer treatment in New Delhi. Claire had been fighting stage 4 cancer for over three years.

The aggressive disease took a heavy toll on her young body, eventually leading to the amputation of one of her legs. Despite the pain and the many challenges she faced, Claire remained hopeful and courageous throughout her journey, inspiring many who followed her story.

On January 19, 2026, she travelled to India with her mother in search of advanced treatment aimed at saving her remaining leg and managing the cancer that had spread to her lungs. The journey was filled with hope, supported by Kenyans from all walks of life who contributed towards her treatment and kept her in their prayers.

A brave fight

While in India, Claire underwent several chemotherapy sessions. Unfortunately, her condition worsened after developing complications, leading to her admission to the Intensive Care Unit. She passed away in hospital last week, leaving behind a grieving family and a nation that had stood with her.

On Monday, March 30, 2026, her remains arrived at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport. The atmosphere at the airport was filled with grief as family members, friends and well-wishers gathered to receive her. Her mother returned home alone, carrying a loss no parent should have to endure.

Claire will be laid to rest in her home area of Othaya in the coming days, as her family begins the difficult process of saying their final goodbyes.

Her story touched thousands across the country, many of whom followed her journey through updates and fundraising efforts. She became a symbol of strength and resilience, and her passing has deeply affected those who had hoped to see her recover.

Beyond the grief, her story has once again brought attention to the challenges families face when dealing with childhood cancer in Kenya. The high cost of specialised treatment, limited access to advanced care locally, and the emotional and financial strain on families often force many to seek treatment abroad.

Read our March issue here 

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Shock as Section of Gikomba Shoe Market Demolished Overnight

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Traders at Nairobi’s bustling Gikomba Market are counting heavy losses after a section of the popular shoe market (mitumba shoe section) was demolished overnight by Nairobi City County enforcement teams. The operation took place in the early hours of Tuesday morning.

Videos and photos circulating on social media show destroyed merchandise and devastated traders who arrived at the market this morning to find their businesses in ruins. According to reports, the county government carried out the demolition after an eviction notice lapsed. This happened even though the High Court (Environment and Land Court) had earlier issued and extended conservatory orders in March 2026, halting mass demolitions and evictions at Gikomba and surrounding areas along the Nairobi River.

Repeated demolitions

Demolitions at Gikomba are not new. As far back as 1977, the original market was brought down by the government to pave the way for light industries. In recent years, attention has shifted to the riparian land along the Nairobi River, with authorities proposing to expand the buffer zone from 30 metres to 50 metres in a bid to control flooding.

Many traders have raised concerns over what they describe as poor consultation, shifting relocation plans and the lack of a clear and secure alternative site. There are also growing fears that the process could open the door to land grabbing and cartel involvement.

Impact

For most traders at Gikomba, the market is more than just a place of business. It is their only source of livelihood. Repeated fires and demolitions have created a cycle of uncertainty, financial strain and constant rebuilding. Many small business owners say they struggle to recover after each loss, only to face another setback months later.

Calls for improved fire safety measures, fair relocation plans and meaningful engagement with authorities continue to grow louder. Without long term and sustainable solutions, Gikomba traders will continue to bear the high cost of operating in one of Nairobi’s busiest yet most vulnerable markets.

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