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Church youth camp meeting turned into love

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Daniel Omondi, 29, is a student at the Pan-African University pursuing a Bachelor of Arts degree in Bible and Theology. Dan, as he is commonly known, also works part-time as a lay minister at the Nairobi Pentecostal Church (NPC), Valley Road. He has worked closely with the youth at the church for many years, which is how he met his wife Maureen Kiambi Omondi, 24, a management trainee at Colgate-Palmolive Ltd. Maureen is known to many as Papiu, her nickname since childhood.

It was in 2006 during Teen’s week at NPC Valley Road, a time when various activities are planned for the church’s youth to engage in, that the couple met. “She has her own version of how we got together, but for me it was when we were standing in line to get lunch one day and I offered to hold her plate,” Dan says while Maureen laughs in the background. He continues, “When we finally got our food, we sat together and talked all through lunch- I think that was a big moment for me!”

Later that year, they came together again during a camp that they both helped to organise. “I was out of school at the time, on vacation, so I decided to help Dan plan the camp,” Maureen recalls. They shopped together, laughed and argued together and generally had fun together. “Planning that camp with Dan was the best decision I ever made,” says Maureen.

One afternoon when all outdoor camp activities had been cancelled due to heavy rain, Dan and Maureen sat together and just talked, sharing about their lives and families. “We talked for so long that people started to wonder what we were talking about,” Maureen says.

Months after the camp, the couple’s friendship grew tremendously. However, awkwardness crept in because neither of them seemed in any hurry to admit they liked each other. Maureen narrates, “I called Dan up, I remember it was April, 22, 2007, and told him we needed to talk. So we met and admitted that we both liked each other, but Dan insisted that we should wait and see how things would pan out. About a month later, we began dating officially.”

The next three years of dating were a wonderful time for them. “I especially loved how Maureen was and still is able to make me open up,” gushes Dan, adding, “With her I can talk about my hopes, family, dreams and fears quite easily.”

The proposal…

On March 6, 2010, Dan and Maureen were out on a picnic when Dan got down on his knee and asked his sweetheart for her hand in marriage. “I remember him saying a lot of things, but I didn’t hear much of it. I was just excited for him to open the box and slip the ring on my finger,” recalls Maureen excitedly.

They had six months to plan the wedding, which they did together without a planner. In the last two months, they had a committee to help strictly with logistics and not to raise funds. Orange was the color of the day, and featured heavily in the décor and bridesmaids’ dresses. The church that brought them together, NPC Valley Road, was the venue for their nuptials. The vows were followed by a reception at the Loreto Convent Valley Road School.

The couple advises others planning their weddings to not get carried away with the day. “Keep things simple and invest more in your future rather than that one day – it’s possible to have a beautiful wedding at a reasonable cost,” Maureen reasons.

Dan and Maureen hope to grow even closer to each other until they reach what Dan calls ‘perfect oneness’, and through it all continue trusting in God to sustain them. “Saying the vows to my wife was a turning point for me,” says Dan, concluding, “we were made one, meaning she is my first priority no matter what happens, and I aim to live up to those vows every single day of my life!”

Published in February 2011

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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