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Celebrating Women: NERIMA WAKO-OJIWA – Political Analyst

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The Wako name is not new in the Kenyan political scene; a legacy cemented by the former Attorney General of Kenya and the first Senator of Busia County, Amos Wako. This legacy lives on courtesy of his niece, Nerima Wako-Ojiwa, a vocal political analyst. JOANNE GICHANA catches up with Nerima who talks about women in politics and the challenges they face.

The role of political analysts is still undefined in society today with many saying that they are just giving opinions, but Nerima Wako-Ojiwa seeks to set the record straight. “Yes they are opinions, but they are politically-based opinions. It’s good to have the different opinions on the table because we all see the same thing but we understand it differently,” clarifies Nerima.

Nerima has become a strong female face for women and the youth in politics with an ambitious dream for the Kenyan political scene. “In this [Kenyan political] terrain, people belong to sides and unfortunately intellectuals join those sides, not speaking on ideologies, but on clanism, tribalism and ethnicity. This is what is killing our country. I want to challenge young people to speak on facts, law and the constitution, ” shares Nerima.

Through her interaction with political bigwigs, a false narrative that young women do not engage in political discourse troubled the 29-year-old and she sought out to challenge this inaccuracy through Siasa Place –a women and youth-centered hub for the public to disseminate the constitution, laws and government policy. Formed in 2015, Siasa Place seeks to create a space where women and the youth – who make majority of the population – can engage in factual dialogue centered on law. Women and politics

“It is very difficult for women to break through the barriers of politics,” says Nerima, noting that many women (and men) fail to understand the weight of the sacrifices and courage it took for several pioneering women in Kenyan politics, such as Martha Karua, to pave the way for women like Nerima to participate in politics today.

“There is so much politic history of great women who fought for the two-thirds gender rule, but we as women need to do better in telling the stories of our history,” she reckons, something she delves into at Siasa Place. And what of the representation of women in the current Kenyan government? “I know that women were happy that the last elections gave us three women governors, which is a step-up compared to previous years.

However, out of approximately 14,000 individuals who vied for elective positions, only 2077 were women, which is a mere 15 per cent,” she notes, posing, “Are the women in power really pushing for the two third’s gender rule? For any historical change to occur, women have to be at the forefront,” she adds. In addition, the integrity among elected women has become a looming concern. Nerima feels as women, we should be above reproach. “We cannot forget that two of three women governors have pending cases in court.”

The unfortunate notion of women being a threat to one another rings true in the political space as Nerima notes. “I have respect for women who have been in the activism space, but there is no sense of mentorship,” Nerima says. Looking back, even Nerima found it difficult to find someone to look up to. But she lives by her mother’s advice – to be that woman who lifts other women up. “My mother is a hard worker so she always believed in doing her best and working with others to do so, and I would say I get that from her,” Nerima says.

However, when it comes to men in politics, the succession plans are somewhat clear. “Anyone who is anyone today in politics went through KANU – from William Ruto to Musalia Mudavadi to Uhuru Kenyatta to Raila Odinga; you name them. Even my grandfather was in KANU, and they [men] pride in bringing in new blood and seeing potential in individuals,” Nerima says.

In addition, “Men also groom their sons to take over them. We [women] don’t have that sense of grooming our daughters to embrace similar political interests. I don’t know whether Martha Karua’s daughter is interested in politics, or Charity Ngilu’s children, or Wangari Maathai’s children and the list goes on,” she notes.

However, there is a double standard in the political scene as women in politics are subjected to uncalled-for sexist scrutiny. “When a woman is nominated for something, all of a sudden we see her nude pictures circulating or her past love life being unearthed,” she says.

Attacks are so common on social media and Nerima confirms the same for the Kenyan political space. “Women in the political space have up to 10 accounts on social media with one specifically meant to fight back attacks. It’s a pseudo name – usually a male – otherwise people cannot fathom it coming from a woman. That’s why some people are afraid of Millie Odhiambo, because she says whatever she feels and its so shocking coming from a woman,” says Nerima.

The woman that is

As a brilliant young female, Nerima’s family would always created a conducive environment for her to have a strong voice in big political matters. Both her parents stemming from political families, politics surrounded her whether she liked it or not. This, she says, fostered a drive to be actively involved in
governance in one form or another. “I’m thankful that growing up, my father never told me ‘oh, that’s silly’. At the time, I thought it was normal until I grew up and found out in other households it is not the same,” she recalls. “A lot of women are afraid to step into politics because their own family members are discouraging them from it,” she adds.

Nerima is now grown, and recently got married to her long-term partner Billian Ojiwa who is also involved with politics – a passion they both share. From the get-go, they had agreed that they were partners and would support each other, but the couple has gotten plenty of backlashes on social media.
“I was on TV one night until about 11pm. My husband got messages on Facebook asking when he ate because his wife is on TV at that time of the night,” she says. “It is a very tough balance, but I know I have an open and honest partner and we will deal with things as they come,” Nerima says, noting that she and her husband are looking forward to a family some day soon, but they are well aware of the challenges they will continue to face, head on.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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