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CAUGHT UP IN A SHOOTOUT Saved by God’s Grace

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Esther Kioko, 37, a travel consultant and mother of one teenage daughter almost lost her life one afternoon in November 2010 in a drama that unfolded in Nairobi’s city centre. She recounts to FAITH MATHENGE her horrendous experience in a shootout that not only left her injured, but also shaken to the core.

Esther Kioko reported back to work after her annual leave on November 15, 2010. She was excited to be back at work with the tour company she worked for. Energetic and enthusiastic about the remaining part of the year, Esther purposed to do her best at work. She received a warm welcome from her collegues but a day after her return to work, things turned in a different direction – not least of what she would have expected or dreamt of. She recounts events of that day in her own words.

“I was in the office on November 16, 2010 at around 4.30pm when I remembered an urgent phone call I needed to make. Since I didn’t have enough airtime I called my twin sister, Liz, requesting her to send me some top up credit. I made the call as soon as Liz topped my airtime. My routine after work was always to pass by Liz’s shop, which was close to my office and we would go back home together.

I was about to leave the office when a client walked in. Another tour operator had referred him to us. Since the company policy was that a commission be paid to any operator recommending clients to us and a booking was made, I needed to sort out this payment before heading out. The operator requested that I pay him through MPESA service and this meant passing through an MPESA agent to do the transaction. I left the office at around 5.10pm and went straight to an MPESA agent located at Travel House on Nairobi’s Kaunda Street. My plan was to load the money in my phone and pay the operator before going to my sister’s shop. There were two clients ahead of me and I waited patiently for my turn to be served.

Deafening sounds…

All of a sudden, I heard a loud bang from outside and without giving it too much thought concluded it was a tyre burst. In a fraction of a second, another loud bang shook the building I was in and then I saw something hit the floor and bounce back. Then I knew danger was looming. Someone shouted that it was gunfire and I became alert. The next thing I heard was a voice ordering everyone to lie down. Things were happening so fast that even before I could get on the floor, there was yet another gunshot.

I was not so lucky this time. The bullet hit my right cheek and blood started oozing from my mouth. I silently called on God to preserve my life because it was apparent death was beckoning. The shooting went on and another bullet hit my right leg. The pain was unbearable but I lay still. I later learnt that there was an exchange of fire between the police and a group of thugs who had taken refuge outside the shop I was in. After the fire exchange died down, a policeman came into the shop to check on us. Next to me lay a lifeless body of a man who had succumbed to gunshot wounds. I did not establish immediately if he was a thug or an innocent victim like me.

My head felt heavy and I was in great pain but I told the police officer that I needed to call my sister. With the little energy left in my body, I reached for my phone and called my sister who responded swiftly. She was allowed into the shop and with the help of a few good Samaritans, they took me to Mater Hospital.

The emergency unit acted swiftly and after first aid treatment I was taken in for X-rays to determine if a bullet was lodged in my body. The X-ray revealed bullet particles that needed to be removed in the theatre. My family had already gotten word of the shootout and was already at the hospital. They were told it would cost around Ksh 950, 000 for me to be hospitalized and treatment started, and since they couldn’t afford that kind of money, they opted to have me transferred to Kenyatta National Hospital (KNH).

We found the queues long at KNH and I was rushed to the Nairobi Women’s Hospital, as I was in too much pain. Family and friends in the meantime were calling each other to help raise the money required before I could be operated on. I was wheeled to the theatre at 1am. Although the surgery was successful, I was horrified to see my heavily bandaged face when I checked myself in the mirror the following day. I was in a lot of pain and couldn’t eat or drink because of the wound on my cheek. The injury on my leg was more severe and took much longer to heal. It was a most trying time and whereas I thanked God for sparing my life, I couldn’t help asking, why me?

I was taken back to theatre after three days to check on the wound on my face for the doctor to decide if I needed skin grafting. This was eventually not found necessary and I responded well to treatment. I was discharged from hospital after a week. Although I still bear the scars of this horrific incidence, I thank God for sparing my life. I am grateful to all my friends and family who supported me financially and emotionally. Their prayers continue to heal the emotional wound, which I still bear.

My daughter Kristi Ndakayao, 17, has been a great source of inspiration to me. When the shooting happened, she was away in school and only got to learn about it when schools closed. Initially she was very disturbed by the incident and the thought that her mother could have died, but we have walked through the healing journey together. The pain in my leg intensifies when the weather is cold, so I have to ensure I am warmly dressed at all times. I can’t wear high shoes and I couldn’t relax my hair or braid it for two years because of the wound on my face. But I am happy that with time, things are slowly getting back to normal and I am getting stronger emotionally. At least now I can style my hair any way I want.

An inquest into the shooting is still ongoing and we hope to know the verdict once it is concluded – when that will be, only God can tell. I have not received any compensation, nor the people who died in the incident, including a police officer. But I remain grateful to God that I am alive, although I still pray for justice.

Lessons learnt…

I have learnt to value life since it is a gift from God and can be taken away from us without any warning. I appreciate each day I live. I also learnt the importance of friends and family. We should always value and treasure them. They gave me tremendous support and this hastened my healing.

One advice I would like to give to people is that if you ever get caught up in a shoot-out, you should immediately get on the floor and remain lying down until fire ceases and you are sure it is okay to rise. It is also important to keep off crime scenes as chances of getting caught by a stray bullet are many.

Published in January 2013

 

 

 

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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