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BOND OF LOVE: IN HOT PURSUIT – Persistence led to marriage

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David Kabugi and his gorgeous wife, Mercy Anne Wanjiru, held their wedding at Tayiana Gardens, off Kiambu Road, on August 20, 2011. They shared the story of their love with FAITH MATHENGE-MURIGU

David Kabugi, 28, an Internet Marketing Consultant and a co-owner of Afrisurf Communications, met Mercy Anne Wanjiru, 25, an auditor with Deloitte & Touché, during a Prayer Breakfast Network (PBN) meeting in Nairobi in 2008.

Mercy recalls their first meeting: “I first saw David on January, 12, 2008 during a prayer breakfast meeting organised by Hope FM fans. He was the speaker on that day. At the time, I was a bachelor of commerce student at the University of Nairobi. After the meeting, I said hello to him just like everyone else did.”

“As one of the (PBN) big fans, I kept in touch with members of our group,” says David. “Through our interactions, I discovered that Mercy was a very responsible and focused girl. We would communicate a lot with mercy. Later I asked her out on a date as I wanted to know her better,” he adds

“We became good friends and enjoyed each other’s company. In July 2008, before leaving for Kilifi to work as a volunteer, I told Mercy of my love for her,” recalls David.

Mercy was not interested in a relationship at the time and this left David heartbroken. He sought God’s help on the matter as he was convinced Mercy would become his wife one day. As he prayed, he felt in his heart a deep conviction to ‘Pursue her until he overtake her.’ With that he was at peace and left for Kilifi in August 2008.

In October 2008, there was a PBN launch in Mombasa, which they both attended. “It was a godsend opportunity as we got to talk for long hours,” David recalls. “Later, I would visit Mercy in Nairobi once in a while and our friendship blossomed.”

“On February 14, 2009, David travelled from Kilifi to speak in a church in Limuru,” says Mercy. “He requested me to accompany him. We later had coffee, and he asked me if I had made up my mind about being his girlfriend. It was an evening of confessions as we realised our feelings were mutual,” she adds.

“I completed my degree in June 2009 and got a job with Deloitte & Touché in September of the same year. At the same time, David returned from Kilifi to start his own company.

The proposal…

“David proposed in a most dramatic way on February 20, 2010 in Kilifi. He requested me to accompany him to Kilifi to collect his belongings and also visit a mutual friend. We had a good time walking on the beach and enjoying the sunset before David went on his knees and proposed. It was very romantic, and of course I said yes.”

“I was very excited,” says David.

“David is the most honest and consistent man I know. He expresses his love for me openly and he loves God passionately,” says Mercy with a loving glance at her husband.

The couple informed their families of their love and desire to marry. Mercy’s parents were a little hesitant as they felt she was still young. They expected she would pursue her master’s degree first. David took her to meet his parents at their home in Nyahururu where she was received well. After that they visited Mercy’s home where they received parental blessings and negotiations for bride price started.

We had a glorious wedding day which ushered us into the beauty of marriage,” says Mercy. “We are grateful to our parents, family and committee members who made it a unique day,” David adds.

We wish the couple a blessed marriage.

Published in Jan 2012

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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