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And the smile is back…

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I have every reason to smile. We have a new government in place and Kenyans maintained peace throughout the period we awaited the decision of the Supreme court and when it was delivered even those who lost accepted the verdict.

Kenyans went on to act maturely as President Uhuru Kenyatta and his deputy William Ruto were sworn in at a colourful ceremony at Moi Sports Centre Kasarani attended by many African heads of state and other dignitaries from around the world.

This was my proudest moment as a Kenyan. Seeing former president Mwai Kibaki, with measured steps, inspect his last guard of honour and hand over power to young and energetic Uhuru Kenyatta, watched by former president Daniel arap Moi and African leaders as old as Robert Mugabe and young as Joseph Kabila made me realise that our young democracy is truly shaping up. We must be proud that old men are exiting the stage for the younger generation and this, hopefully, will prick the conscience of those African leaders who have refused to hand over the baton.

That we can no longer have a president in this country hang onto power until his last breath is something to be proud of. That we can conduct a peaceful election despite doomsday predictions and travel warnings from our detractors, and when we don’t agree with the results move to court and abide by it’s decision, is something we need to congratulate ourselves for regardless of who we voted for. This peaceful election was a win for our country and not just for the Jubilee  Coalition.

And now to you president Uhuru and your deputy… You are two young (my children laugh at the reference of these two as ‘young’) men  whom we have entrusted with power and Kenyans are looking up to you to eradicate the evils that have bedeviled our country since independence, to make it a better place for all of us. As for my generation – those born in the fifties – we missed representation in the highest office by one of our own because old men hang on to power for so long. But today we are not complaining because we have lived to see the generation next to ours – those born in the sixties – take over power, and if we are lucky and God blesses us, we shall live to see our children’s generation of the 80s rule this country one day.

Things can only get better.

But while we celebrate you Mr. President, those over six million people who voted for you and the thousands who cheered you wildly at Moi Sports Centre Kasarani will be watching to see that you live to the promises you made to them during your campaigns and which you have clearly elaborated in your manifesto. Indeed, all of the 40 million Kenyans are waiting with bated breath to see how your leadership will be. If my advice is worth anything, please remove your vote-seeking blinkers and re-look at your manifesto and campaign promises and set your priorities right to ensure you deliver in the most practical, sustainable and beneficial way to the country.

I, for one, have no doubt you will deliver but you will need God’s blessings and Solomonic wisdom to do so. You will need to surround yourself with people, who, like you and your deputy, have the best interests of this country at heart.

You will need to make decisions that will further your agenda for this country including economic growth and vision 2030, youth  empowerment and job creation, corruption and accountability, equal access to resources and gender parity, security and tribalism… This list is so long that, I’m afraid, Mr. President your hair will be grey by the end of your term.

Detractors will be many, Mr. President, and those who want to benefit themselves and their families will try to wiggle their way into your administration. You must resist these evil powers and be resolute about what you want to achieve for the country and the vehicle you want to use. Remember five years is not a long time. Only put people in positions of leadership if they are willing to serve wholeheartedly, are able and of high integrity. And, like we do in the corporate world, ensure they go through regular performance reviews.

You may have good intentions, Mr. President, but if those around you don’t, your efforts will come to a cropper and those cheering crowds at the stadium will crucify you in 2017.

You have repeatedly said you hold family values in high regard. Open your eyes wide and you will see how families have disintegrated in our country. Divorce is rampant, values and moral standards have taken a nosedive, and a generation is getting lost in drugs, alcohol and HIV/Aids. Your government will require a holistic approach to address the myriad of problems facing families in this country. You and your deputy must be the best examples of family, not by show or just being seen in church, but in words and deeds. We hope your spouses will support you in this endeavor to promote family values. I pray that the first lady, Margaret Kenyatta, can choose to promote a family related project as her priority for the next five years, as we desperately need a role model to help bring back order and pride to families.

Mr. President, mine is to wish you well as you start this arduous journey. It is my prayer that all Kenyans will join hands in supporting you and that each one of us will play our different roles to ensure this country moves forward. We have made so much progress under the new constitution that under your leadership things can only get better.

Do the right thing and you will leave a legacy, just like your father did. Good luck as you occupy your father’s old office.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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