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AFFLICTED BY MS But Hangs on Hope

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Wallace Musiega strikes you as a versatile young man who will not easily give up. He is full of hope despite the magnitude of challenges that life has thrown his way. He remains encouraged and inspired, even after grappling with multiple sclerosis (MS) for the last two years. He shares his experience with MWAURA MUIGANA.

A friend recommended that I interview Wallace Musiega so he can share his experience with Parents’ readers. I called him one morning to book an appointment and was quite disappointed. He sounded drunk, yet it was mid-morning. I contemplated hanging up the phone; unsure an interview with him would be of any value to our readers. Nevertheless, I still booked the appointment, hoping he would have sobered up by time we caught up.

I marshaled patience as he slurred while trying to explain to me how to get to his office at the Kenya Power Company’s (KPC) construction department in Ruaraka in Nairobi. Despite the slur, his directions were perfect and for a minute I thought I was being a bit mean to judge him as a drunkard even before meeting him.

Just before setting off for the interview the following morning, I called him just to be sure the directions were accurate. He still sounded drunk but the directions remained as given the previous day. Within a few minutes I was outside his office in Ruaraka. Even before I could pull out my phone to announce I was there, I saw a man staggering in my direction, while waving at me. Obviously he had recognised my branded car.

Face to face with him seemed to confirm my doubts. Had I come all this way to interview a drunkard? I asked myself. He extended a shaky left hand to me and I missed it, not once but twice and this seemed to amuse him. I was thoroughly embarrassed. When I eventually got hold of his hand I was amazed at how weak it felt.  I couldn’t even give him a firm handshake. It then hit me this was no drunkard, but a man battling serious health issues. I couldn’t stop beating myself for being so prejudiced before meeting Wallace.

As if to allay my fears, he started by introducing himself and affirming that he had never tasted alcohol in his 32 years of life. He told me he had a medical condition that affected his limbs and mobility and made his speech slurred. Wallace suffers from multiple sclerosis (MS). Few people understand his condition and many assume, like I did, that he is drunk.

“Some clients refuse to be served by me, mistakenly thinking I’m drunk. But I always endeavor to explain my condition,” says Wallace, a KPC record clerk in charge of acquisition of materials for teams undertaking jobs in the construction department.

Wallace explains to me the journey he has waked in the last two years. He was as fit as a fiddle when he left the office one day in 2010 for his home in Kasarani. He had a chatty evening with his wife and their daughter before resting for the night. He was surprised to wake up the following morning with his entire body feeling so heavy that he couldn’t lift himself out of bed. He tried to call his wife to come and help him, but the words were slow to come out and he was slurring. His eyes could also not focus properly. He didn’t feel any pain yet his whole body felt heavy, weak and shaky.

His wife was shocked beyond words to see her husband in that condition. They both assumed it was a temporary condition, which would go away on its own, but this was not to be. His condition worsened with each new day. He didn’t think it was a health-related issue because there was no pain or any physical features like swellings. At one point, he almost came to believe he had been bewitched, but his Christian faith prevailed upon him to stop that line of thinking. Wallace worships at the Deliverance Church Kasarani.

When his condition became severe, he consulted a neurologist at Kenyatta National Hospital (KNH). He was admitted for observation and tests. “The doctor wanted to rule out an Ear Nose and Throat (ENT) problem as blocked ears could make one lose balance. I didn’t have any ENT problems. In the meantime I was put on steroids and the doctor recommended a lumber puncture test. This is a test where fluid specimen from the spine is removed and sent to South Africa for analysis. The specimen taken at KNH got spoilt and I had to take another one at the Coptic Hospital in Nairobi,” says Wallace, a diploma holder in information science from the Kenya Polytechnic.

He also underwent many other tests including a brain scan and magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) to determine the functioning of his brain. These tests diagnosed multiple sclerosis (MS), which was reconfirmed by the lumber puncture tests results from South Africa.

“The news was shocking beyond words. My wife thought we should seek a second opinion. A neurologist at the Aga Khan Hospital came up with the same diagnosis. He went further to explain to us in great detail what MS was and what we should expect. We had not heard of this condition before.  MS is caused by the body’s immune system eating up the nerves coating, which it views as a foreign body. When the nerves are left bare, mental coordination to the brain and back becomes sluggish. The condition was more pronounced on my right side and over time I had to learn to use my left limbs. I am now basically left handed which I find very challenging,” explains Wallace.

Even more shocking to the couple was the revelation by the doctor that the condition, which affects more women than men, has no cure. The doctor told him his only hope was a drug, betaseron, which was not available locally. It was another shocker when he went on the Internet to check out the drug. It was available in the USA, Britain, Germany and South Africa at an estimated cost of Ksh 2.85 million for one yearly dose and he needed to be on it for four years. The drug helps to reduce the frequency of relapse episodes and decreases MS flare-ups. Although betaseron goes a long way into helping manage MS, it is known to have potentially dangerous side effects such as depression, liver, heart and thyroid problems. Patients are started on a small dose, which is gradually increased to minimize side effects.

The most prominent side effect is flu-like symptoms, which are experienced by most patients. These include fever, chills, sweating, muscle aches and fatigue, which last for 24 to 36 hours. It is usually the worst side effect after the first injection and lessens gradually with each injection.

Betaseron is also known to cause liver damage and regular monitoring is required to prevent such damage from occurring or progressing. It also causes a decrease in the numbers of red and white blood cells, as well as a reduction in the number of platelets in the blood. Patients are required to have blood tests done every three months for the first year to check the white blood cell count and liver function. After a year, they can be reduced to once every four months. The drug is not recommended for patients suffering from blood problems such as anemia. According to doctors, the drug should be used with caution in patients suffering from depression and should not be used at all by women who are breastfeeding.

 

Wallace, who comes from a very humble family, had no way of raising the kind of money required to keep him on the drug for four years, and he told the doctor as much. “The doctor advised me against starting on the drug until I was certain I could afford the complete four-year course otherwise I risked having the condition blow to unmanageable levels. In the meantime, he prescribed some other medication, costing Ksh10,200 for a monthly dose, to help alleviate the symptoms,” says Wallace.

Wallace and his wife appealed to friends and family for financial help. A medical funds committee, mainly drawn from family and friends, was constituted. The committee has so far raised Ksh268, 000 and pledges of Ksh 132,000. This is a huge effort, though far from the target.

Support network…

Wallace’s family, especially his wife, has been very supportive. He also receives great support from his colleagues at work who appreciate and understand his condition and encourage him a lot. He is not given any preferential treatment at work and is instead encouraged to participate in all activities with other staff members, like going to lunch with them. Wallace appreciates the support he gets from his colleagues.

Even though his condition is disabling, Wallace does not consider himself disabled and remains hopeful that money will become available for him to get treatment.

If this story touches you and you would like to help Wallace, you can contact him at:

Email: wmusiega2010@gmail.com or Wmusiega@kplc.co.ke

Phone 0721 358 391

What is Multiple Sclerosis? 

Multiple sclerosis is a condition that affects the brain and spinal cord, occasioning loss of muscle control, vision, balance, and sensation thus producing numbness. It’s caused by damage of the nerves of the brain by one’s own immune system. The condition is therefore called autoimmune disease. The body’s immune system normally targets and destroys substances foreign to the body such as bacteria. In case of autoimmune diseases, it mistakenly attacks normal tissues which it views as foreign bodies.

In MS, the immune system attacks the brain and spinal cord, the two gears of the central nervous system. The central nervous system is made up of nerves acting as the body’s messenger system. Each nerve is covered by a fatty substance called myelin, which insulates the nerves and helps in the transmission of nerve impulses, or messages, between the brain and other parts of the body. These messages control muscle movements, such as walking and talking. Due to the damage to scar tissue (sclerosis) in the brain, the brain is unable to send and to receive messages and this breakdown of communication causes symptoms of MS.

What are the causes?

It’s yet not certain why the body’s immune system goes awry in multiple sclerosis. Some scientists believe it is a combination of genetics and something in the environment to which the person was exposed to early in life.

Published in November 2012

 

 

 

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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