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Conversations Every Parent Should Have Before and After Reporting Day

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High school does not begin with lessons. It begins with conversations. The ones had before reporting day, and the ones continued after, often shape how a child experiences this new chapter.

Many parents focus on rules, supplies, and performance. Those matter. But what stays with a child are the words spoken at home when everything still feels uncertain.

Before Reporting Day: Set the Emotional Tone

Before your child steps into high school, they need clarity more than pressure.

Talk about expectations, yes, but keep them realistic. Explain that high school will be different. Harder in some ways. Better in others. Let them know they are not expected to have everything figured out immediately.

This is also the time to talk about values. Respect. Responsibility. Kindness. Consequences. Not as threats, but as anchors they can return to when things feel confusing.

Keep it calm. Keep it honest. Keep it human.

Talk About Friends Without Sounding Like a Lecture

Peer influence hits early in high school. Avoid the dramatic warnings. Children switch off when they feel preached at.

Instead, talk about choice. How friends influence behaviour. How it is okay to walk away from situations that feel wrong.

Make it clear that fitting in should never come at the cost of self respect.

Money, Boundaries, and Independence

High school often comes with pocket money and new freedoms. This is the moment to talk about limits.

Explain what money is for and what it is not for. Talk about borrowing, sharing, and pressure. These conversations prevent many future problems.

Independence should be guided, not dumped.

After Reporting Day: Keep the Door Open

Once school starts, resist the urge to demand full reports. Your child may not yet know how to explain what they are feeling.

Check in gently. Ask how they are adjusting rather than what they are achieving. Let them lead the pace of the conversation.

What you want is trust, not updates.

Address Discipline and Rules Early

High school discipline can feel shocking to new students. Talk about rules and consequences without fear tactics.

Help your child understand that rules exist to create order, not to trap them. Encourage them to ask questions and seek clarity rather than rebel quietly.

Understanding reduces anxiety.

Normalize Asking for Help

Many children believe asking for help is a sign of weakness. Correct that early.

Let them know it is okay to talk to a teacher, a matron, a counselor, or you. Silence helps no one.

Support systems only work when they are used.

Keep the Conversation Going

This should not be a one time talk. It is an ongoing exchange that evolves as your child grows.

Some days they will talk. Some days they will not. Stay available anyway.

What matters most is that your child knows this: no matter how big high school becomes, home remains a safe place to land.

That assurance carries them further than any lecture ever will.

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Heartbreak as Body of 12-Year-Old Blessed Claire Muthoni Arrives Home from India

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Kenyans are mourning the loss of Blessed Claire Muthoni, a brave 12-year-old girl from Kihuri in Othaya, Nyeri County, who passed away while undergoing specialised cancer treatment in New Delhi. Claire had been fighting stage 4 cancer for over three years.

The aggressive disease took a heavy toll on her young body, eventually leading to the amputation of one of her legs. Despite the pain and the many challenges she faced, Claire remained hopeful and courageous throughout her journey, inspiring many who followed her story.

On January 19, 2026, she travelled to India with her mother in search of advanced treatment aimed at saving her remaining leg and managing the cancer that had spread to her lungs. The journey was filled with hope, supported by Kenyans from all walks of life who contributed towards her treatment and kept her in their prayers.

A brave fight

While in India, Claire underwent several chemotherapy sessions. Unfortunately, her condition worsened after developing complications, leading to her admission to the Intensive Care Unit. She passed away in hospital last week, leaving behind a grieving family and a nation that had stood with her.

On Monday, March 30, 2026, her remains arrived at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport. The atmosphere at the airport was filled with grief as family members, friends and well-wishers gathered to receive her. Her mother returned home alone, carrying a loss no parent should have to endure.

Claire will be laid to rest in her home area of Othaya in the coming days, as her family begins the difficult process of saying their final goodbyes.

Her story touched thousands across the country, many of whom followed her journey through updates and fundraising efforts. She became a symbol of strength and resilience, and her passing has deeply affected those who had hoped to see her recover.

Beyond the grief, her story has once again brought attention to the challenges families face when dealing with childhood cancer in Kenya. The high cost of specialised treatment, limited access to advanced care locally, and the emotional and financial strain on families often force many to seek treatment abroad.

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Heartbreak as Body of 12-Year-Old Blessed Claire Muthoni Arrives Home from India

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Kenyans are mourning the loss of Blessed Claire Muthoni, a brave 12-year-old girl from Kihuri in Othaya, Nyeri County, who passed away while undergoing specialised cancer treatment in New Delhi. Claire had been fighting stage 4 cancer for over three years.

The aggressive disease took a heavy toll on her young body, eventually leading to the amputation of one of her legs. Despite the pain and the many challenges she faced, Claire remained hopeful and courageous throughout her journey, inspiring many who followed her story.

On January 19, 2026, she travelled to India with her mother in search of advanced treatment aimed at saving her remaining leg and managing the cancer that had spread to her lungs. The journey was filled with hope, supported by Kenyans from all walks of life who contributed towards her treatment and kept her in their prayers.

A brave fight

While in India, Claire underwent several chemotherapy sessions. Unfortunately, her condition worsened after developing complications, leading to her admission to the Intensive Care Unit. She passed away in hospital last week, leaving behind a grieving family and a nation that had stood with her.

On Monday, March 30, 2026, her remains arrived at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport. The atmosphere at the airport was filled with grief as family members, friends and well-wishers gathered to receive her. Her mother returned home alone, carrying a loss no parent should have to endure.

Claire will be laid to rest in her home area of Othaya in the coming days, as her family begins the difficult process of saying their final goodbyes.

Her story touched thousands across the country, many of whom followed her journey through updates and fundraising efforts. She became a symbol of strength and resilience, and her passing has deeply affected those who had hoped to see her recover.

Beyond the grief, her story has once again brought attention to the challenges families face when dealing with childhood cancer in Kenya. The high cost of specialised treatment, limited access to advanced care locally, and the emotional and financial strain on families often force many to seek treatment abroad.

Read our March issue here 

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Shock as Section of Gikomba Shoe Market Demolished Overnight

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Traders at Nairobi’s bustling Gikomba Market are counting heavy losses after a section of the popular shoe market (mitumba shoe section) was demolished overnight by Nairobi City County enforcement teams. The operation took place in the early hours of Tuesday morning.

Videos and photos circulating on social media show destroyed merchandise and devastated traders who arrived at the market this morning to find their businesses in ruins. According to reports, the county government carried out the demolition after an eviction notice lapsed. This happened even though the High Court (Environment and Land Court) had earlier issued and extended conservatory orders in March 2026, halting mass demolitions and evictions at Gikomba and surrounding areas along the Nairobi River.

Repeated demolitions

Demolitions at Gikomba are not new. As far back as 1977, the original market was brought down by the government to pave the way for light industries. In recent years, attention has shifted to the riparian land along the Nairobi River, with authorities proposing to expand the buffer zone from 30 metres to 50 metres in a bid to control flooding.

Many traders have raised concerns over what they describe as poor consultation, shifting relocation plans and the lack of a clear and secure alternative site. There are also growing fears that the process could open the door to land grabbing and cartel involvement.

Impact

For most traders at Gikomba, the market is more than just a place of business. It is their only source of livelihood. Repeated fires and demolitions have created a cycle of uncertainty, financial strain and constant rebuilding. Many small business owners say they struggle to recover after each loss, only to face another setback months later.

Calls for improved fire safety measures, fair relocation plans and meaningful engagement with authorities continue to grow louder. Without long term and sustainable solutions, Gikomba traders will continue to bear the high cost of operating in one of Nairobi’s busiest yet most vulnerable markets.

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