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Motherhood at All Costs? Rethinking Adoption and Surrogacy in Kenya

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When conversations about motherhood come up, there’s often an unspoken assumption: that every woman must experience pregnancy to be “complete.” Yet for couples struggling with infertility, or women facing health conditions that make carrying a child unsafe, this expectation can feel like a closed door. Adoption and surrogacy offer alternative paths to parenthood, but both are often misunderstood, stigmatised, or shrouded in silence.

Adoption in Kenya is legal but still carries cultural resistance. Families sometimes treat adopted children as outsiders, even though the law grants them equal rights. Many couples quietly choose not to adopt because of fears about how extended family or society will perceive the decision. Yet child protection reports consistently show thousands of children living in institutions or in need of permanent homes. Adoption is not just about filling the void of childlessness, it is also about giving children a chance at belonging.

Surrogacy is even more complicated. While Kenya has no clear legal framework, arrangements still happen, often informally and without proper safeguards. Some couples travel abroad to pursue surrogacy in countries with clearer laws, but this option is costly and out of reach for many. For those who attempt it locally, lack of regulation can lead to disputes about custody, finances, and the rights of the surrogate mother.

Religious and cultural narratives add another layer. Some leaders celebrate adoption as an act of compassion, while others frame surrogacy as interfering with God’s plan. These mixed messages leave couples feeling trapped between their desire for children and their fear of judgement.

Imagine if adoption and surrogacy were spoken about openly, without shame or secrecy. Couples who have tried IVF without success would not feel like they had reached the end of the road. Women facing life-threatening pregnancies would know there are other safe ways to build a family. Children in need of stable homes would find love more quickly. And surrogates, too, would have their roles respected and their rights protected.

Kenya could draw lessons from other countries that have created clear, compassionate policies. For instance, regulated surrogacy laws elsewhere establish medical, legal, and emotional safeguards for everyone involved. Similarly, public awareness campaigns have helped normalise adoption, making it easier for children to integrate fully into their new families.

If we are serious about breaking the stigma around infertility, then we must also broaden our understanding of what parenthood looks like. A

doption and surrogacy are not last resorts, they are legitimate, meaningful paths to family. They deserve the same respect and conversation space as fertility treatments.

At the upcoming Fertility Awareness Event on 30th August 2025 at the Golden Tulip Hotel, Westlands, adoption and surrogacy will be part of the panels. Doris Murimi of Endo Sisters Foundation will join specialists and policy voices to unpack the realities, address the fears, and spark the honest conversations we urgently need.

Parenthood does not always have to mean pregnancy. What matters most is love, care, and commitment. Families deserve the freedom to choose the path that works for them without stigma.

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Heartbreak as Body of 12-Year-Old Blessed Claire Muthoni Arrives Home from India

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Kenyans are mourning the loss of Blessed Claire Muthoni, a brave 12-year-old girl from Kihuri in Othaya, Nyeri County, who passed away while undergoing specialised cancer treatment in New Delhi. Claire had been fighting stage 4 cancer for over three years.

The aggressive disease took a heavy toll on her young body, eventually leading to the amputation of one of her legs. Despite the pain and the many challenges she faced, Claire remained hopeful and courageous throughout her journey, inspiring many who followed her story.

On January 19, 2026, she travelled to India with her mother in search of advanced treatment aimed at saving her remaining leg and managing the cancer that had spread to her lungs. The journey was filled with hope, supported by Kenyans from all walks of life who contributed towards her treatment and kept her in their prayers.

A brave fight

While in India, Claire underwent several chemotherapy sessions. Unfortunately, her condition worsened after developing complications, leading to her admission to the Intensive Care Unit. She passed away in hospital last week, leaving behind a grieving family and a nation that had stood with her.

On Monday, March 30, 2026, her remains arrived at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport. The atmosphere at the airport was filled with grief as family members, friends and well-wishers gathered to receive her. Her mother returned home alone, carrying a loss no parent should have to endure.

Claire will be laid to rest in her home area of Othaya in the coming days, as her family begins the difficult process of saying their final goodbyes.

Her story touched thousands across the country, many of whom followed her journey through updates and fundraising efforts. She became a symbol of strength and resilience, and her passing has deeply affected those who had hoped to see her recover.

Beyond the grief, her story has once again brought attention to the challenges families face when dealing with childhood cancer in Kenya. The high cost of specialised treatment, limited access to advanced care locally, and the emotional and financial strain on families often force many to seek treatment abroad.

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Heartbreak as Body of 12-Year-Old Blessed Claire Muthoni Arrives Home from India

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Kenyans are mourning the loss of Blessed Claire Muthoni, a brave 12-year-old girl from Kihuri in Othaya, Nyeri County, who passed away while undergoing specialised cancer treatment in New Delhi. Claire had been fighting stage 4 cancer for over three years.

The aggressive disease took a heavy toll on her young body, eventually leading to the amputation of one of her legs. Despite the pain and the many challenges she faced, Claire remained hopeful and courageous throughout her journey, inspiring many who followed her story.

On January 19, 2026, she travelled to India with her mother in search of advanced treatment aimed at saving her remaining leg and managing the cancer that had spread to her lungs. The journey was filled with hope, supported by Kenyans from all walks of life who contributed towards her treatment and kept her in their prayers.

A brave fight

While in India, Claire underwent several chemotherapy sessions. Unfortunately, her condition worsened after developing complications, leading to her admission to the Intensive Care Unit. She passed away in hospital last week, leaving behind a grieving family and a nation that had stood with her.

On Monday, March 30, 2026, her remains arrived at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport. The atmosphere at the airport was filled with grief as family members, friends and well-wishers gathered to receive her. Her mother returned home alone, carrying a loss no parent should have to endure.

Claire will be laid to rest in her home area of Othaya in the coming days, as her family begins the difficult process of saying their final goodbyes.

Her story touched thousands across the country, many of whom followed her journey through updates and fundraising efforts. She became a symbol of strength and resilience, and her passing has deeply affected those who had hoped to see her recover.

Beyond the grief, her story has once again brought attention to the challenges families face when dealing with childhood cancer in Kenya. The high cost of specialised treatment, limited access to advanced care locally, and the emotional and financial strain on families often force many to seek treatment abroad.

Read our March issue here 

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Shock as Section of Gikomba Shoe Market Demolished Overnight

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Traders at Nairobi’s bustling Gikomba Market are counting heavy losses after a section of the popular shoe market (mitumba shoe section) was demolished overnight by Nairobi City County enforcement teams. The operation took place in the early hours of Tuesday morning.

Videos and photos circulating on social media show destroyed merchandise and devastated traders who arrived at the market this morning to find their businesses in ruins. According to reports, the county government carried out the demolition after an eviction notice lapsed. This happened even though the High Court (Environment and Land Court) had earlier issued and extended conservatory orders in March 2026, halting mass demolitions and evictions at Gikomba and surrounding areas along the Nairobi River.

Repeated demolitions

Demolitions at Gikomba are not new. As far back as 1977, the original market was brought down by the government to pave the way for light industries. In recent years, attention has shifted to the riparian land along the Nairobi River, with authorities proposing to expand the buffer zone from 30 metres to 50 metres in a bid to control flooding.

Many traders have raised concerns over what they describe as poor consultation, shifting relocation plans and the lack of a clear and secure alternative site. There are also growing fears that the process could open the door to land grabbing and cartel involvement.

Impact

For most traders at Gikomba, the market is more than just a place of business. It is their only source of livelihood. Repeated fires and demolitions have created a cycle of uncertainty, financial strain and constant rebuilding. Many small business owners say they struggle to recover after each loss, only to face another setback months later.

Calls for improved fire safety measures, fair relocation plans and meaningful engagement with authorities continue to grow louder. Without long term and sustainable solutions, Gikomba traders will continue to bear the high cost of operating in one of Nairobi’s busiest yet most vulnerable markets.

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