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Secondary Infertility: When Conceiving Again Becomes a Struggle

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You had your first child without much difficulty. The pregnancy might not have been perfect, but it happened. Everyone assumes the second time will be the same. Yet months turn into years, and the baby you hoped to welcome never comes. The shock of struggling to conceive after already being a parent has a name: secondary infertility.

Secondary infertility is more common than most people think. According to the World Health Organization (WHO), infertility affects about 17.5% of adults globally, and a significant number are couples who already have a child. In Kenya, doctors are seeing a rising number of families experiencing this quiet struggle. Because society equates parenthood with fertility, people often assume that if you’ve had one child, you’ll easily have another. When it doesn’t happen, couples face confusion, stigma, and sometimes blame from their own families.

Several factors can cause secondary infertility. Conditions like blocked fallopian tubes, fibroids, or endometriosis can develop after the first pregnancy. Untreated infections, including some sexually transmitted ones, may also cause complications. For men, sperm count and quality can change with age, lifestyle choices, or underlying health conditions. Age remains a significant factor for women, as egg quality and quantity naturally decline over time.

Desire

What makes secondary infertility especially painful is the expectation from those around you. Friends ask, “When is the little one getting a sibling?” Relatives joke about “not waiting too long.” Parents who long to give their child a brother or sister quietly carry the pressure of both personal desire and public scrutiny.

Yet, there is hope. Modern fertility treatments offer solutions that didn’t exist for previous generations. Simple interventions like ovulation tracking, hormonal support, or surgical corrections can make a difference. For others, assisted reproductive technologies like intrauterine insemination (IUI) or in-vitro fertilisation (IVF) may be recommended. Emotional support also matters. Speaking openly with a doctor or joining a support group can ease the weight of isolation.

Action

If you or someone you know is facing secondary infertility, the first step is to seek medical advice rather than waiting in silence. A fertility assessment can help identify possible causes and guide the next steps. Couples should also remember that they are not alone. Many Kenyan families have walked this path, and conversations around fertility are slowly becoming less taboo.

As ParentsAfrica, we believe these stories need to be heard. That’s why we invite you to the Fertility Awareness Event on 30th August 2025 at the Golden Tulip Hotel, Westlands. Specialists, lived-experience voices, and support organisations will be ther

e to answer questions and provide guidance in a stigma-free environment. Sometimes, the journey to growing your family requires science, patience, and compassion in equal measure. This event is a chance to find all three.

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Heartbreak as Body of 12-Year-Old Blessed Claire Muthoni Arrives Home from India

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Kenyans are mourning the loss of Blessed Claire Muthoni, a brave 12-year-old girl from Kihuri in Othaya, Nyeri County, who passed away while undergoing specialised cancer treatment in New Delhi. Claire had been fighting stage 4 cancer for over three years.

The aggressive disease took a heavy toll on her young body, eventually leading to the amputation of one of her legs. Despite the pain and the many challenges she faced, Claire remained hopeful and courageous throughout her journey, inspiring many who followed her story.

On January 19, 2026, she travelled to India with her mother in search of advanced treatment aimed at saving her remaining leg and managing the cancer that had spread to her lungs. The journey was filled with hope, supported by Kenyans from all walks of life who contributed towards her treatment and kept her in their prayers.

A brave fight

While in India, Claire underwent several chemotherapy sessions. Unfortunately, her condition worsened after developing complications, leading to her admission to the Intensive Care Unit. She passed away in hospital last week, leaving behind a grieving family and a nation that had stood with her.

On Monday, March 30, 2026, her remains arrived at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport. The atmosphere at the airport was filled with grief as family members, friends and well-wishers gathered to receive her. Her mother returned home alone, carrying a loss no parent should have to endure.

Claire will be laid to rest in her home area of Othaya in the coming days, as her family begins the difficult process of saying their final goodbyes.

Her story touched thousands across the country, many of whom followed her journey through updates and fundraising efforts. She became a symbol of strength and resilience, and her passing has deeply affected those who had hoped to see her recover.

Beyond the grief, her story has once again brought attention to the challenges families face when dealing with childhood cancer in Kenya. The high cost of specialised treatment, limited access to advanced care locally, and the emotional and financial strain on families often force many to seek treatment abroad.

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Heartbreak as Body of 12-Year-Old Blessed Claire Muthoni Arrives Home from India

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Kenyans are mourning the loss of Blessed Claire Muthoni, a brave 12-year-old girl from Kihuri in Othaya, Nyeri County, who passed away while undergoing specialised cancer treatment in New Delhi. Claire had been fighting stage 4 cancer for over three years.

The aggressive disease took a heavy toll on her young body, eventually leading to the amputation of one of her legs. Despite the pain and the many challenges she faced, Claire remained hopeful and courageous throughout her journey, inspiring many who followed her story.

On January 19, 2026, she travelled to India with her mother in search of advanced treatment aimed at saving her remaining leg and managing the cancer that had spread to her lungs. The journey was filled with hope, supported by Kenyans from all walks of life who contributed towards her treatment and kept her in their prayers.

A brave fight

While in India, Claire underwent several chemotherapy sessions. Unfortunately, her condition worsened after developing complications, leading to her admission to the Intensive Care Unit. She passed away in hospital last week, leaving behind a grieving family and a nation that had stood with her.

On Monday, March 30, 2026, her remains arrived at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport. The atmosphere at the airport was filled with grief as family members, friends and well-wishers gathered to receive her. Her mother returned home alone, carrying a loss no parent should have to endure.

Claire will be laid to rest in her home area of Othaya in the coming days, as her family begins the difficult process of saying their final goodbyes.

Her story touched thousands across the country, many of whom followed her journey through updates and fundraising efforts. She became a symbol of strength and resilience, and her passing has deeply affected those who had hoped to see her recover.

Beyond the grief, her story has once again brought attention to the challenges families face when dealing with childhood cancer in Kenya. The high cost of specialised treatment, limited access to advanced care locally, and the emotional and financial strain on families often force many to seek treatment abroad.

Read our March issue here 

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Shock as Section of Gikomba Shoe Market Demolished Overnight

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Traders at Nairobi’s bustling Gikomba Market are counting heavy losses after a section of the popular shoe market (mitumba shoe section) was demolished overnight by Nairobi City County enforcement teams. The operation took place in the early hours of Tuesday morning.

Videos and photos circulating on social media show destroyed merchandise and devastated traders who arrived at the market this morning to find their businesses in ruins. According to reports, the county government carried out the demolition after an eviction notice lapsed. This happened even though the High Court (Environment and Land Court) had earlier issued and extended conservatory orders in March 2026, halting mass demolitions and evictions at Gikomba and surrounding areas along the Nairobi River.

Repeated demolitions

Demolitions at Gikomba are not new. As far back as 1977, the original market was brought down by the government to pave the way for light industries. In recent years, attention has shifted to the riparian land along the Nairobi River, with authorities proposing to expand the buffer zone from 30 metres to 50 metres in a bid to control flooding.

Many traders have raised concerns over what they describe as poor consultation, shifting relocation plans and the lack of a clear and secure alternative site. There are also growing fears that the process could open the door to land grabbing and cartel involvement.

Impact

For most traders at Gikomba, the market is more than just a place of business. It is their only source of livelihood. Repeated fires and demolitions have created a cycle of uncertainty, financial strain and constant rebuilding. Many small business owners say they struggle to recover after each loss, only to face another setback months later.

Calls for improved fire safety measures, fair relocation plans and meaningful engagement with authorities continue to grow louder. Without long term and sustainable solutions, Gikomba traders will continue to bear the high cost of operating in one of Nairobi’s busiest yet most vulnerable markets.

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