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Home Ownership: To buy or to build?

Most, if not all of us, have the goal and desire of owning a home. The tough nut to crack, however, is deciding whether to build or buy a home. The decision can affect your finances, goals, and lifestyle just to name a few.  ABSA BANK KENYA’s Head of Mortgages John Kaburu shares a few tips to help you decide.

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Building a home gives you more control as compared to buying. You are more likely to have a home that matches your aspirations when you build as you can always work with an architect to bring the home you have in mind to reality. Moreover, building gives you more flexibility because you can choose the location of your home and this gives you more satisfaction. Furthermore, on average, it is cheaper to build than to buy. However, you must get everything right. Below are some of the factors you want to consider when building.

Financing: Most financiers go the long-term route. For example, Absa Bank Kenya supports you with 100 percent of the construction cost if you own the land. If you don’t own the land Absa Bank will finance 80 percent of the combined cost of buying the land and construction. Depending on your age and income patterns, the bank can stretch this to 20 years.

Professional Guidance: If you chose to build rather than buy, you must consider involving someone you can trust to guide you through the process of construction. In the same breath, if buying land, you will need someone to guide you through the process of purchasing. You also need to have an architect on board, at an extra cost of course, but with the assurance that the resulting home will meet your expectation and meet the standards.

When you look at the intricacies involved in building, you may need some level of understanding to identify competent professionals and contractors to do the job. You also need to ask yourself if you can supervise the workmanship and the material used versus the cost you are being charged or delegate the work to a contractor who will do his job and give you your house key when the project is completed.

Cost: At the end of the day, it is all about affordability. The further you move from an urban area; the more affordable land becomes. However, you are forced to compromise on things such as amenities, infrastructure, and utilities among others. Nonetheless, this allows you to build more. It all depends on how you strike the balance.

If you want to build a very big house, then you get a piece of land that is outside the urban area, which lets you invest more in the house. It is a tradeoff between the size of the house and the amount you are using to construct, versus the piece of land and the value.

Other factors to consider are whether the location that you choose contributes to your other needs, such as your workplace, your children’s schools, your daily commute, availability of amenities, and security considerations.

Buying a home

Buying, just like building, has some advantages. For instance, it saves you long periods of waiting for a house you are constructing to be complete. With buying, you just need to identify a location and a house that is under purchase. The rest of the process is easy, depending on the location of the property and the documentation stages. You could even move into your new home in just about three to six months.

Another advantage of buying a built house is that the developer will position the property at a location that makes sense for the buyer to invest. As such, he or she considers the proximity to the road, malls, amenities, education, and utilities such as access to water and electricity. In addition, a developer is likely to construct several units, most likely in a gated community, so there is a level of comfort regarding security. The secret is to have a credible developer and you can be sure that you will have a good home.

Financing: For a majority of financiers like Absa Bank Kenya, when it comes to purchasing a house, the bank finances up to 25 years which is among the longest in the market. If you purchase a house worth 10 million shillings and below, we finance 100 percent while for a house worth 10 million and above we finance 90 percent of the amount.

Both buying and building have their merits and demerits. At the end of the day, the decision to build or buy lies within oneself depending on your budget, lifestyle as well as goals.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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