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BRIAN MURIMI: Shining love’s light on STREET FAMILIES

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Brian Murimi is a man about town. For the past seven years, the tall, soft-spoken 23-year-old has been combing the streets of Nairobi looking for street families so as to offer them long-term solutions to their challenges. He opens up to ESTHER AKELLO on how curiosity, divine direction, and collective responsibility have conspired to give hope to families many consider hopeless and a menace to society.

Love Light

That is the name of the ‘underground’ movement that Brian Murimi is championing. This is because, there have been times when Murimi, the founder, has had to go under tunnels, bends and curves, in the still cover of the night to look for, wait for it… street families.

When Brian first told me what Love Light was about, I wondered what manner of profound insight would drive a 23-year-old young man, (who should be busy enjoying a laissez-faire life as people in that age group are wont to do), to intentionally scour dumpsites and river beds for street families, leave alone the obvious danger it poses and the enormity of a task that is nothing short of a suicide mission. His decision to the undertaking he assures me, although unclear at the beginning, was an early one, when he was just 16 years old, and influenced by a series of events. The biggest game-changer was the shocking loss of his father just two months after a short-lived illness and a month after Brian celebrated his 16th birthday. Ironically, that same year, Brian too had been suffering from an undiagnosed illness.

“My dad was my friend and mentor. His loss in 2007 took its toll on me and made me re-think what was important in life. It was then that the name Love Light came to me. I did not know what it meant, but it remained at the back of my mind,” says Brian.
His conviction would not reveal itself until two years later while recuperating from a medical procedure.

“I was reading the Bible in the book of Isaiah Chapter 58. It talks about how to please God through prayer, fasting and helping the poor. From that, I knew what I was supposed to do and I have never looked back,” says Brian.

Brian was also touched when he one day spotted a homeless person sleeping on his neighbourhood cobbler’s stand. It was his first time seeing a vagabond and the scene was unsettling. And that marked the genesis of the 58 Movement (as Love Light was called prior to 2014).
Brian never saw the homeless person again, but he had ignited an unquenchable fire within him. At that time, as luck, innovation or determination would have it, Brian was quite the entrepreneur in high school.

“I read a lot, so after a while, I started trading books with other students for profit. I decided to pour in 10 per cent of all my earnings to Love Light with the aim of having my first outreach programme once I finished sitting for my final national exams,” recalls Brian.

He also shared his plans with a friend who agreed to come on board. Business was not exactly booming but by the end of the year, Brian used all his profits of 100 Shillings to fund their first mission, which comprised of five bags of Mukimo (a mixture of mash potatoes, maize, beans and green leafy vegetables) and a heart full of determination. In the dead of the night, after a random scouting stint around their neighbourhood, the duo met up with a group of 15 street boys. The atmosphere was tense but Brian introduced himself anyway, determined to pass his message.

“We told them they were important, needed in society and worth the effort. We told them God loves them and asked to pray with them,” remembers Brian.

The pair would carry out other small-scale outreach projects thereafter in other areas giving out food, clothes and shoes not knowing that the tables were about to turn drastically.

Commitment comes knocking

One evening in 2010, while on his way home, Brian noticed a host of families gathered by the banks of Nairobi River, chatting and warming themselves by bonfires. True to form, he decided to organise an outreach programme. Realising the project was bigger than the previous ones, he called on his friends to not only chip in, but to accompany him on location as well. Four heeded the call and once more in the dead of the night, the crew ended up serving tea, chapatis and porridge to bewildered street families. When the crew was leaving, a friend suggested they plan for a follow-up.
“It was while on our second outreach project that we realised street families were people just like us. They had dreams and aspirations and we could see the yearning in their faces. We knew we had to do more. We knew we had to change their lives for the better,” recalls Brian.

Doing more meant knowing the families. Knowing the families meant commitment, consistency and resource mobilisation. The team made a decision.

“Our second outreach programe happened to be on a Friday, so we agreed to come back every Friday night thereafter, with food and sit with these families one on one. We have been doing it since,” says Brian.

For project sustainability, Brian realised more people needed to own it. So he reached out to a few more friends who reached out to more friends creating a ripple effect. Soon his team grew. Meanwhile, word about what Love Light was doing went round and soon the team was dealing with 30 street families. With time, the group was able to deduce what most families suffered from. Most come to the city to find good jobs but get none hence endingup in the streets.

The script gets even worse for women as in a bid to survive, they end up in flash marriages or dead end relationships where they are taken advantage of sexually, with most ending up as single mothers. In their efforts to sustain their families, they take up commercial sex work risking further pregnancies, abuse and disease.

As far as children are concerned, most are runaways, orphans or victims of broken families.To date, what Love Light started as nightly get-to-know meetings have since developed into a full-fledged curriculum geared towards giving street families a dignified yet sustainable life. The tenets of the project include identifying problems, finding and implementing solutions. The first tenet, identifying the problem, relies on trust, built over recurrent bonding visits including meals.

The second tenet, deals with identifying long-term solutions either through education or starting businesses.The third tenet (and where the training wheels come off), deals with arming the families with practical knowledge through mentorship, advice and counseling on issues including finance, family, sexuality and so on. The results are literally life changing.

“One of my best success stories is when a middle aged man broke down in my arms. He had come to express his gratitude and to say goodbye. He had been attending our mentorship meetings eventually managing to find a job out of town. He said our meetings helped him heal and change his perception of life,” Brian emotionally recalls.

There have been other successes. Brian speaks fondly of a woman who followed Love Light’s advice and joined a merry-go-round. From her earnings, she bought polythene bags and started selling them. Her family is no longer in the streets. Brian admits that there have been challenges. There were times when the burden seemed too heavy to bear and dwindling finances due to lack of consistent sponsorship. The general public has also stereotyped street families as mere lazy thugs who refuse to earn their keep thereby refusing to get involved with them. Poor security following recurrent terrorist attacks has also affected the programme.

“We have also partnered with the Nairobi county government to provide us with certification in order to avoid mistaken identity mishaps during swoops,” says Brian.

But with all the challenges, the team manages to elevate the lives of street families.

“The team and our supporters have been amazing. Our vision burns bright because of their passion and dedication,” concludes Brian.

 Published March 2015

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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