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THE INSATIABLE FOLLY OF thirst for power and money

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s I write this, the social media is abuzz with news of chaos in Burundi. It all started with claims that President Pierre Nkurunziza had been overthrown. This is after an army general declared that the military had taken over the country while Nkurunziza was attending an East African Community heads of state summit in Tanzania to discuss the Burundi crisis. But this is not even the big issue in my mind. No. I am thinking about men’s addiction to power even when the addiction threatens their own lives.

Nkurunziza has been President since 2005 and was due to retire this month after serving his second term as per the Burundi constitution. But he decided to sideline the law and run for a third term despite opposition from his subjects, which led to violent street protests that threatened to throw the country into civil war – again. Nkurunziza stood his ground and unleashed the police on the very people he wants to swear “to serve and protect.”

People are being killed in the protests but the “king” is unmoved. Like Pharaoh of the old, warnings from the United Nations, the International Criminal Court and the International community to “let the people free,” are falling on deaf ears. He wants to remain president and everyone with the contrary opinion could go jump into Kagera river.

Nkurunziza appears to me like an above average rational guy. But so does every other despot that has terrorised and enslaved his people just so his narcissistic addiction to power is well fed. Why does this happen? Why do the likes of Nkurunziza insist on leading a people that want to be led but not by them? Why do they think they are so important that it is okay if other men die for them to rule? Who told them that theirs is a more sublime God and that the country would burn without them in power?

Thankfully, no one lives forever. And at the opportune time, the tears of the suffering people and the blood of those slaughtered in the madness find their way to a higher power, which many of us call God. And these ignoramuses get to learn their lessons. I sure hope Nkurunziza, and others like him, will one day learn their lesson.

But there is a closely related group of men that I must talk about – the gluttonously corrupt class of Kenyan leaders. They grab land meant for hospital construction; they steal the school compound, the recreation park, and church compound. But they never get enough… so they must grab forests, rivers and all riparian land. Still, that is not enough and they come for the widow’s and the orphan’s land. There is a joke making rounds in social media that if you wrap one kilo of meat with a newspaper with the picture of a particular politician, the meat will be just a quarter kilo by the time you get home.

Why does one man want to own the whole of Kenya? Where will the orphans and widows go to without the only piece of land they call home?

And did you hear that some leaders are demanding 10 per cent of every tender they approve? Imagine 10 per cent of Ksh 400 billion standard gauge railway project for instance! Why does anyone desire to have a micro-Central Bank of Kenya all for himself? Why steal money you will never use in your lifetime? Wouldn’t it give you much more pleasure to see a greater number of fellow citizens enjoying a better standard of living out of proper management of taxpayers’ money?

But even among the common “mwananchi” class to which majority of us belong; haven’t you noticed similar levels of stupidity? For instance, the brother who slaughters a brother over land then gets life imprisonment for murder so that neither he nor his deceased brother will live on the said land? Folly!

Or the woman who stabs another over a man then gets life sentence so the man she killed for is left with no alternative but to find another woman? Folly! And why does a man beat a woman just because she wants to end their relationship? Don’t such men know a woman has power to choose what is right by her own estimation?

All these are not any different from what the likes of Nkurunziza do. They all want to possess by force what should be possessed by mutual agreement. If citizens don’t want you as their leader, just go and find some other work to do. And if a sister doesn’t want you, find one who will want you and spare us the drama. Get it, man!  

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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