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PREGNANT? Give yourself a massage treat

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Pregnancy should be a joyous time and there is no better way to heighten that happiness than engaging in a little indulgence. Unwind with the ancient arts of massage and reflexology for a total mind and body make-over that is sure to leave you with an enviable glow.

First things first, let’s get some facts straight. As it turns out, that little word of advice from your best friend or your auntie that getting a massage while pregnant is a no-no is a myth. According to Oak Therapy Spa beautician and pregnancy masseuse Risper Lwamba, a massage during pregnancy is not only a yes- yes, but a win-win too.

“It is safe to massage a pregnant lady provided care is taken because of her condition and it may even help in inducing labour,” she says.

However, for many women and even professionals, the fear of this relaxation technique has sipped in due to various reasons. Many practitioners recommend that one should engage in the activity once they reach their second trimester. This is because the first trimester is considered to be the most at risk for miscarriages. However, there has been no research findings linking massage to miscarriage but fear of lawful action, citing negligence or malpractice leading to miscarriage, has most practitioners running scared.

The key, therefore, is to find a certified pregnancy masseuse and as Risper explains, “Pregnant women need special attention including the position they lie in while undergoing the massage. It is not recommended to lie on one’s tummy or back. Lying on the side is the best position. Additionally, use special pregnancy pillows for the head, feet and back for proper support. Avoid deep tissue massages, which tend to be more aggressive and intrusive. Instead, apply pressure lightly.”

“Pregnant women experience a lot of pressure on their back and feet from the weight of supporting the pregnancy so hands, shoulders, feet and the lower back are definitely good areas to massage albeit with extreme care on the back. The tummy is a tricky area to massage but one can do so if they are careful to use soft, slow circular motions when massaging it,” Risper adds.

According to experts, the benefits of massage range from reducing muscle tension and preparing women for the impending musculoskeletal changes of pregnancy, to relieving fatigue, improving sleep, increasing levels of the “feel-good” hormones serotonin and dopamine, and increasing blood flow throughout the body.

If you cannot come around to indulging in a full body massage, there’s a slight compromise in reflexology. Reflexology refers to a type of nerve stimulation based on the premise that various body parts correspond to different pressure points located entirely on the hands and feet. To achieve the nerve stimulation, one needs to know and understand which pressure point on the hands and feet correspond to which body organ. According to Susan Kirimo, a reflexologist with Oak Therapy Spa, the technique, though not embraced by many, can make a world of difference in altering not only one’s body, but also mind.

“Reflexology is like housekeeping. Just like you clean your house, rid it of dust and other unwanted materials, reflexology acts the same way by removing blockages in the body while stimulating the nerves and blood flow to their optimum levels, which in turn improves organ performance and overall body functioning. Often times, the blockages are caused by stress which sometimes manifests itself through the organs and hence you find someone suffers from conditions such as constipation,” says Kirimo.

The practice is not only recommended for people suffering from chronic diseases like arthritis and diabetes, but pregnant women as well. Just like massage, extra care has to be taken not to over stimulate the body and hence, pressure points on the hands and feet corresponding to the stomach are avoided. However, shoulders, hands, eyes, temples, lungs and knees are good areas for stimulation, as Kirimo articulates.

Reflexology and massage are not recommended in the event a woman suffers from a high-risk pregnancy, high blood pressure, nausea and morning sickness among other conditions, to avoid over stimulation, which can lead to premature labour.

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Published in December 2015

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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