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It’s a New Year, it’s a new dawn! HANDING OVER THE BATON

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Today I hand over the editorial leadership of this magazine to a great team; one that I have been nurturing in readiness for this day. This is the best New Year gift to myself. As Parents turns 30 later this year, it is time for me to hand over this responsibility to a younger team who will steward it to the next level.

Over the past two years, I have given away more and more of my editorial responsibilities so that I can have more opportunity to better task myself with the things that I really love to do – serving the communities in various development NGOs and institutions is one of them. Now, with an almost complete hand-over of my greatest responsibility in this organisation, hopefully I will have time to start writing that book I have procrastinated over for a long time.

My new team is truly a winning team. Led by Lily Ronoh as your new editor who is deputised by Esther Kiragu and under them Esther Akello and Henry Kahara, I have no doubt they will continue on the transformational path this magazine has taken, to ensure it is serving today’s families in the best way possible. Sure, they will need my input from time to time, but I’m not the one doing the work, save for sharing events in my life with you on this column.

Borrowing a leaf from Teddy Roosevelt, 26th U.S. President, “The best leader is the one who has sense enough to pick good men and women to do what he wants done, and self-restraint enough to keep from meddling while they do it,” I intend to let the team get on with the job.

Good leaders know that more is accomplished by constantly empowering their team members to fulfill the mission of the organisation. I have guided this team and now have given them a free hand to experiment with their new insight and understanding of what they have learnt from me. I want them to ‘try their wings’, as they assume their new roles.

Motivation, encouragement, inspiration, and support are the weapons of the greatest generals. They don’t rigidly manage their troops. Instead, they motivate them to achieve the mission. Lily and team, I remain your general – take on the battle ahead.

Let me now introduce you to the new team. Lily Ronoh, a wife and mother of one, has been the revise editor since December 2014. Lily holds a Master of Arts degree in Linguistics and worked as an English teacher before joining the Parents team. Lily exemplifies the greatest lesson in leadership – seen more and heard less. She does not just preach about excellence, but practices it. Having watched her work with me, the qualities I desire in a strong team are modelled in her own life. She has a good work ethic, is punctual and diligent. She is efficient. She keeps her word and finishes any job she starts. She is a beautiful and warm human being who cares deeply about her family and values friendships. That’s your new editor and you will sure love her.

Esther Kiragu has been with Parents since February 2012 as the editorial coordinator. She holds a Masters of Arts degree in communication studies. Esther enjoys the respect of the entire Parents team because she demonstrates excellence in all aspects of her life. She is a great writer who always seeks to keep her standards very high because she knows her teammates look up to her. She shares knowledge and experience with her teammates by her actions as well as her words. To Esther, nothing is impossible.

Esther Akello, a mother of one and a graduate of Daystar University in communications has been a staff writer with Parents since November 2014. Esther is a great team player and a valued member of this team. Joining this month will be Henry Kahara to complete the team. I am so blessed to work with such resourceful and pleasant people.

In all my working life, one of the top most things always in mind is how my co-workers will remember me when I am no longer working with them. In other words, what legacy do I leave at every workplace I set foot in? I take great pride in everything I do and for me, work has never been something you do to pay bills or pass time until retirement. Every assignment I take on, whether paid for or voluntary, matters. I give it my best and respect and love those who work with me in whatever capacity. Next to my family, my co-workers are probably the people I spend the most time with. Leaving a legacy of excellence and love is a nice way to be remembered, but more importantly, it gives you a past you can reminisce about without regrets.

To this team, I have delegated with full instructions. I have delegated with full empowerment. I have delegated with total encouragement. I expect them to start building their own legacy. And to our readers, continue to support and encourage them.

Happy New Year everyone!

emathu@parents.co.kepass

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

Click here to read our March issue 2026

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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