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THE TRUTH ABOUT BREASTFEEDING

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Ever heard that for one to produce enough breast milk they need to eat a special diet or that breastfeeding is a sure form of contraception? These are just some of the common beliefs that have transcended time and misled many mothers, thanks to being shared over and over again. In honour of World Breastfeeding Week this month, we sought to find out the facts about breastfeeding from Evelyne Kongoro, Lamaze International certified lactation coach.

1 Small breasts EQUAL less milk

FALSE

What’s size got to do with it? According to Evelyne, NOTHING! Milk production, just like any other commodity, works on the basis of demand and supply. The more demand there is for milk by a baby, the more a mother’s body produces it. According to Evelyne, all a mother needs to do to create demand for milk is to put the baby on the breast as much as possible. Where the mother is not close to the baby, then she needs to pump as much as possible and as often as possible.

2 Some women simply just DON’T have milk

FALSE

Evelyne says that as long as a woman is pregnant and delivers her child full term, she should have milk. “Pregnancy is not just about your baby growing but the body also prepares for the journey after birth. By the time you are delivering, your brain and body are ready and all they need is stimulation, which is provided by the baby. Women should insist on breastfeeding their babies within 30 minutes of birth. From then, the body responds to this stimulus as the laws of demand and supply come into play,” she explains.

3 Breastfeeding is PAINFUL

FALSE

According to Evelyne, it need not be although it may be uncomfortable in the beginning. She adds that most breastfeeding pain stems from cracked nipples brought about by poor latching – the baby’s mouth position on the breast. To attain the correct latching position, lightly tickle the ridge between the baby’s nose and mouth. The baby should open their mouth widely and the mother can insert her nipple.

The baby’s mouth should cover the nipple and most, if not all, of the areola – the black part. The mother’s breast should rest at the middle ridge of the baby’s upper jaw, not the front of its mouth as this is when the friction between the nipple and the baby’s gums leads to cracks. In case the pain is not related to cracked nipples or a full breast, consult a doctor.

4 Breastfeeding can HELP one lose weight much faster

TRUTH

Breastfeeding is work! According to medical experts, breastfeeding can help a mother burn between 500 to 800 calories a day. As Evelyne explains, breastfeeding also encourages the release of the hormone oxytocin which helps contract the cervix back to its original size. Note, however, that weight loss is also subject to how much food the mother is consuming.  It is also not an automatic and reliable weight loss programme for all mothers. If one wants to lose extra pounds, some exercise may be in order but only after a green light from their doctor.

5 Breastfeeding MAKES breasts sag

FALSE

While breastfeeding can change the size and fat distribution of breasts, with adequate support from a good nursing bra, the breasts will get back to normal once nursing is done.

6 Breastfeeding is a SURE form of contraception

SOMEWHAT

Breastfeeding as a form of contraception has only worked for some women when the baby is younger than six months, and is exclusively and frequently (two to three hours) breastfed. However, some women’s bodies bounce back faster and their menstrual cycle gets back to work at least four to six weeks after pregnancy. It is advisable to get a comprehensive contraceptive plan if this is the case.

7 Mothers need a SPECIAL diet while breastfeeding

FALSE

Many moms may need to sit down for this. FALSE! As Evelyne explains, according to research, the extra calories one needs to breastfeed are actually the equivalent of a peanut butter sandwich. The only diet a mother needs is the one doctors have been recommending since the beginning of time – a balanced diet, at normal times and in enough quantities for one’s need. This is mind blowing especially considering how much food many mothers subject themselves to in order to ‘boost’ milk supply.  Evelyne further advises breast milk is 90 per cent water and perfectly balanced to meet the baby’s nutritional demands and antibodies for the first six months of life so there is no need to give babies water. For mothers, however, staying hydrated is key.

Published in August 2016

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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