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Don’t Let Evil Touch You

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As you walk through the journey of life, you meet all kinds of people – good and evil. What is comforting is that there is more goodness in this world than evil, but sometimes evil overshadows goodness, especially if you allow it to touch you. If you are a person of faith like I am, I want to assure you that no evil can touch you. It will prowl your territory, looking to devour you but the power of God will defeat it.

The worst form of evil comes from people who walk around as if the world owes them something and they will go to any length to hurt and malign those they are jealous of, or have a grudge against. These kinds of people come to your life in many forms – friends, employees, work colleagues, neighbours, and even total strangers who may have only heard about you but never seen you.

No wonder they miss out on God’s blessings because of their evil deeds, always out to hurt those they think have more than them. Wisdom tells us to keep away from toxic and evil people – if it’s a friend, drop them; if it’s an employee, fire them. This way you will be protecting yourself and those you value in your life.

But be warned, their evil will not stop because you have got them out of your life. If anything, they will come at you with a vengeance. And because they are cowards, who would not face you, they will do anything to try and hurt you under the cover of anonymity. Today these evil people have found refuge in the social media where they anonymously pour their wrath on innocent and unsuspecting people. Like many other Kenyans, I have been a victim of one such satanic blog, so evil and malicious that my attacker, and of many other media personalities, aptly chooses to hide under Satan’s signature.

God’s Word teaches us that if we submit ourselves to God and resist the devil by standing firm against him, the devil will flee from us. The devil wants our lives to be miserable. He wants to steal our joy, our peace, and every good thing that God has blessed us with. If you remember that the God in you is greater than any enemy you have, you will have power to resist the devil at his onset.

And this is why I tell ‘Satan’ and his bloggers – you cannot touch me, not my family, not my work, and not the joy and peace I enjoy through God’s grace. Not any of those malicious and meaningless insults packaged in a language that depicts you as the scum of the earth can take away this beautiful life that God gave me, nor stop me from doing good to the society.

Just know that you cannot hide under the guise of the Internet to maliciously abuse people and think you can get away with it. You also can’t take away the respect society holds for those people you choose to abuse because their good deeds are open and visible; their values well known by those who matter; their families are strong and secure; their lives are organised and happy; and society has more wisdom than to believe anonymous bloggers, who have nothing useful to offer.

I am not the only victim of this evil in social media. Many Kenyans are hurting because of malice and gossip spread through social media. Just as I was wondering why people would choose to abuse others anonymously through the Internet and what they expect to gain from it, I came across columnist Kamal Kaur’s article in The Star Newspaper – Think you are anonymous on line? Think again.

Also a victim of social media attack, Kamal is of the opinion that people who turn to social media to anonymously abuse you are terribly jealous and resentful of something you might have and they don’t. I want to quote from her article because she says exactly what I would like tell people using the Internet to abuse innocent Kenyans going about their own businesses.

“What I don’t understand is the need to hide and be abusive. Clearly you have some issues that a psychologist would have a field day with.

If you have the guts to abuse and put someone down, why not have the guts to stand up and be responsible for your own words? If you have an opinion why can’t you say it out aloud? Is it because deep down you know you are nothing but a hater and have so much vitriol and you know what you are doing is completely wrong?

If you have a false ID just to spread your brand of stupidity then just get a life. You are nothing but a loser if you have to stoop to abusing other people just because you don’t have the guts to speak up. Either come out and say it openly or just get some help to control your awkward multiple personality syndrome because people like you are nothing other than a burden on the face of the earth.”

I couldn’t agree more with Kamal. We shall and must, as a society, fight this evil. We must remain focused on the right thing. Right is right and you should never abandon your principles or the good work you do just because some mad man or woman out there thinks they can belittle you and your achievements. You must keep your sanity at all times and not be defeated by madness. Don’t let those crazies get you down.

You shouldn’t let anyone kill your joy or sense of achievement. To you ‘Satan’ and your friends, I want to tell you there are some battles not worth fighting, even when you win, and others that must be fought, even if you lose. This one is a battle that must be fought. The social media madness has to end if we are to bring up our children in a sane world; if we are to uphold values that count for a strong God-fearing nation. I will be part of the troops that will fight this battle.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

Click here to read our March issue 2026

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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