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It’s the morning of August 7, 2013. We are up at 4.30 a.m. to get ready in time for our airport pick-up at 6.30 a.m. I need a lot of time to get ready, as with my current disability everything has to be done very, very slowly. We are in a hotel on Piccadilly Street in central London, which has been our home for the last seven nights.

For a week before that, my home was a hospital in London where I had been admitted for a repair of a major injury on my left shoulder. Don’t ask me how I got it. It could be anything from lifting a heavy weight, gym injury, or a bad golf swing… I stopped searching for the answer from the moment an MRI in April revealed the huge tears on the shoulder ligaments and biceps tendons and surgery was necessary to get me rid of the excruciating pain that had dogged me since December last year.

At 6.15 a.m. we get a call from the reception that our taxi is waiting. We hold hands with my daughter and say a prayer, thanking God for everything and asking Him for journey mercies. As the porter enters the room to pick our bags, I switch on to CNN hoping to catch up with the world news before leaving the hotel room. I recall seeing a huge fire on the screen but didn’t pay much attention, as there have been fires in many parts of the world lately, particularly in Syria and Egypt.

We have a quiet ride to Heathrow Airport. I am happy to be going back home to recuperate, and my daughter is sad to be parting with me and worried how I will manage on my own on the flight to Nairobi.

She will be flying back to New York after coming to London to take care of me. Thank God for daughters, Njeri was the perfect caregiver, especially in those first few days from hospital when I had pain to deal with, nausea from the loads of painkillers, the awkwardness of the abduction bolster that supports my arm, and the sleepless nights.

She acted like a wild cat if she spotted someone walking threateningly towards me on the crowded London streets as we took slow walks. “Hey, watch out! Don’t touch her!” she would shout protectively while shielding me with her body.

We arrive at Heathrow terminal 5 where I will be taking the 10.25 a.m. British Airways  (BA) flight to Nairobi and my daughter will be taking her New York flight later in the day. We had arranged it this way to ensure she helps me through the airport, and, as instructed by my doctor gives me an injection two hours before my flight to reduce chances of a blood clot. Undergoing surgery under anesthesia, being bed-ridden and flying increase your risk of a blood clot. It is while at the check-in counter that I see a text message from my husband: ‘Fire at the airport…’ The lady at the counter informs us there seems to be a problem in Nairobi and they have been advised to hold checking in the flight. She advises us to come back after 30 minutes. The news is bad when we come back – all flights to Nairobi have been cancelled and nobody knows when the airport will reopen. I am booked at the Sofitel Hotel in terminal 5 for the night.

My daughter and I are in tears. How could this happen on this day? What shall we do now? Njeri had planned everything meticulously ensuring all my bags were well packed, my hand luggage was light and the medication I needed in-flight was within reach, as she was sure in ten hours or so after parting I would be in the safe hands of my husband. Now, all our plans have been ruined. We compose ourselves and I tell her everything will be okay.

My husband is keeping us updated and things seem to be really bad in Nairobi with passengers stranded and flights being diverted to other airports. My daughter takes her flight later in the day and leaves me feeling lonely and helpless. I have a long, lonely and difficult night but I survive. I return to the BA counter the following morning and their Nairobi flights remain cancelled. There is a ray of hope as Kenya Airways is still flying their daily flight from Heathrow, but as expected the flights are full. My best bet of getting back home is to take a BA flight leaving Heathrow that evening for Entebbe and from there take a Kenya Airways flight to Nairobi. We reserve a seat on this route but I am asked to check again at 3 p.m. to see if there is an opening in the Kenya Airways business class. Thank God, I get a seat in the flight departing London at 8 p.m. that evening.

I get help from the hotel staff to transfer to terminal 4 to catch the Kenya Airways flight. It’s in moments of your weakness that you notice the goodness of people. Strangers help me all the way through. God bless the woman passenger who saw my predicament when I was asked to place my bags on the scale at the check-in counter and came to help me. As expected I have a hard time going through security but I have a letter from my doctor explaining why the abduction bolster cannot be removed to go into the X-ray machine. It takes the chief security officer at terminal 4 to allow me through. Now my next hurdle – there is still an injection to go through and I am scared to death of doing it myself. I take a seat in the business lounge to compose myself and gain courage to do what needs to be done.

One small voice is telling me ‘its okay, you don’t need it’ while a louder one is telling me ‘don’t risk it.’ I choose not to risk, gather courage, walk into the bathroom, clean my belly below the navel with antiseptic, take out the syringe, close my eyes, prick the skin and push down. And hooray! I have done it!

And I didn’t freak out. I dispose the syringe in the safe box provided by the hospital, text my daughter the great news and am good to go. The kind and attentive Kenya Airways flight attendants make my overnight flight stress-free. They ensure I am comfortable and take care of my hand luggage. It is a pleasant surprise to find Mr. Titus Naikuni, CEO of Kenya Airways, at hand to meet passengers and ensure smooth clearance in the makeshift tents that are serving as the arrivals hall. To return to my country and see the efforts Kenya Airways and the staff of the Kenya Airport Authority have put in place to ensure our airport remains open despite the tragedy makes me proud. Thank you, Kenya Airways, for bringing me back home.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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