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Twice bitten but not yet shy

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Monica Musungu, 30, is the founder and CEO of Scenery Adventures limited, a tours and travel firm. A risk taker, who has been out of business twice before finally finding success, this mother of two – Mitchel Atieno, eight, and Princess Kisitu, 8 months, has learnt to thrive through challenges. With great pride, Monica takes us through her inspiring life, which has had a share of its challenges and remarkable success.

“I was excited when I passed KCPE in 1996 and secured a place at Lwanya Girls High School in our rural home in Busia District. My dad had just retired from government and without an income sold our only cow to pay for my first term’s school fees. He couldn’t afford my bus fare to school so he took me on his bicycle – a journey that took two hours. It was quite embarrassing getting to school on a bicycle. He left me in school without even a cent for pocket money but through God’s grace I survived, but just for the first year.

FLIGHT TO THE CITY…

With nothing else to sell to pay my second year’s school fees, I transferred to RGS Secondary School in Nairobi, a cheaper day school. My uncle who lived in Kariobangi Estate hosted me. By this time, mum had taken to brewing and selling illicit brews in our rural home to support the family. At times she transported these brews to Nairobi, amidst all risks involved, where demand was high and returns good. I walked to and from school every day because of lack of bus fare. I went to school without breakfast and the only meal that was guaranteed was dinner.

AUCTIONEER’S HAMMER FALLS…

My uncle was also facing financial difficulties and one time all his household goods were auctioned because he was in rent arrears. In the process all my things and those of my brothers who also lived there were sold. My brothers moved to Mathare slums but they were reluctant to take me with them because of insecurity in the area, especially of young girls. They advised that I return to my rural home but I was determined to complete school.

I stayed briefly with my sister in Ngomongo in Korogocho slum, but I was a big burden to her and her husband who were struggling just to survive. I requested for help from my pastor at the Kariobangi Baptist Church in Kariobangi North. He and his wife took me in to live with them inside the church compound. Having a roof over my head and food was such a blessing.

I continued struggling to get school fees and was always in arrears. Mum had stopped her illegal trade sinking us deeper into financial problems. I recall mum and I going to our local MP’s office in Nairobi to seek help when I was in form three. After camping at his Nyayo house office for days, Hon. Chris Okemo, then Minister for Energy was kind enough to write a cheque to my school to clear fee balances. It was through his help that I was able to sit for the Kenya Certificate of Secondary Education (KCSE) in 2000.

Though my pastor’s family was extremely kind and good to me, I missed my brothers. When they found a place of their own – a small iron structure in Kariondundu slum in Kariobangi – I requested my pastor to let me stay with them. Though food was irregular in my new abode, I enjoyed living with my siblings.

After high school, I responded to an advertisement for a two-year certificate course in food and beverage services at the SOS Technical Institute in Buru Buru, Nairobi, and was lucky to get a place. My parents raised some of the fees, and, as now had become practice; I went to my MP to request for help. Through his help, I was able to complete the first year but I dropped out during the second year when no help was forthcoming. The institute’s director felt pity on me when I pleaded to be allowed back and he paid the fees. He also promised to get me a job if I worked hard and passed my exams. I took up the challenge, emerging among the top five students in the final examination in 2003.

A WAITRESS IS BORN…

The director kept his promise and got me a waitress’s job at Bounty Hotel in South B, Nairobi. Initially it was casual employment but through my hard work and focus I was offered a permanent position. After a short while I was promoted to a receptionist, a job I thoroughly enjoyed because it allowed me to interact with different people. Many of the hotel guests appreciated my work and often wrote to the management to commend me.  One such guest was Mr. Erlend Vold Engetf from Norway who expressed his appreciation of my good service. He owned a local tour company, World Kenya Camping and Safaris. When he checked out of the hotel, he gave me  his contact and told me he would be happy to offer me a job if I ever needed a change.

FROM RECEPTIONIST TO TOUR MANAGER…

At the right timing I contacted Erlend. He offered me the position of marketing manager at his tour company, yet I had no training in tours and travel, or marketing. This, however, was not a deterrent as my policy in life is: “I can always learn.” Luckily I am a fast learner and I embraced my new job with zeal, working long hours and trying new marketing ideas. I was soon on top of things to the delight of my employer who later became, and still is, my mentor. I get a lot of inspiration from him.

I got many opportunities to travel on the job. For example, in 2007, I represented the company in a three-week international tours and marketing conference in Norway. By this time, I was thinking of starting my own firm to utilise all the experience I had gained. Though my friends thought this was a crazy idea, my mentor encouraged me to live my dream.

I resigned from my job and registered my tours and travel company, Scenery Adventures, with one of my friends as a partner. I rented a small office at Bidco Towers in Moi Avenue and also rented two cars from a friend. The going was rough in the beginning because of lack of capital but I persisted and worked very hard.

Just when the business started picking up, one of the vehicles was involved in a serious road accident. The client who had hired the car disappeared from the scene of the accident and the car was towed to the police station. When police came to our offices to carry out investigations, my partner disappeared and I was left to deal with the matter. I was arrested and detained. I was released when my insurance company took over the matter.

They say calamities don’t come singly. Soon after this incident a woman, posing as a client, hired the other car and later sold it to an unsuspecting customer in Thika town. The person I was renting the cars from accused me of stealing the vehicle and reported the matter to the police. I was arrested and languished in police custody for two weeks while the police carried out investigations. They caught up with the woman who had sold the car and I was exonerated from the crime. My business couldn’t stand these upheavals and within no time it collapsed.

FROM GRACE TO GRASS…

With my business gone, I was reduced to a pauper. I couldn’t even afford basic needs. My business partner accommodated me for a while before I moved in with a friend’s mother in Mwiki, Kasarani. I was desperate and lonely but still had hope that I would rise again.

In April 2007, a friend proposed a partnership to revive Scenery Adventures. We borrowed money from friends and moved back to my old offices where we started from scratch. We rented some vehicles and the business started picking up. However, there was a problem. My partner was pulling me back as he was putting the rented vehicles to personal use thus denying the business its only source of revenue. From this and many other things, financial problems started creeping in and the operation collapsed in December 2007.

I was second time unlucky and soon slipped back to poverty. It was disheartening to go back to ask friends to house me. While I felt bad, I never considered myself a failure and was determined to soldier on. With the little savings I had, I re-started the business, this time alone, in January 2009. I moved to cheaper offices at Afya Co-operative House along Tom Mboya Street. This time round I was wiser and determined to avoid the pitfalls that had undermined my previous attempts at business.

SUCCESS AT LAST…

In August 2010 a friend tipped me about a contract to provide transport to a group of ambassadors led by former US first lady and now Secretary of State, Hillary Clinton, during the African Growth and Opportunity Act Forum held in Nairobi. It was a huge contract, but still I applied and competed with major tour firms. To my delight, I got the contract and eventually earned a good commission. I interacted with many dignitaries during this conference and negotiated for other contracts.

Buoyed by this success, I was determined to get a share of business during the Zain-sponsored MTV Mamas Award when celebrities from all over the world converged in Nairobi in August 2010. I used all the marketing skills in the books to win a contract to provide accommodation and transport to a group of Congo Brazzaville artists participating in the event.

I had learnt that in this business, you couldn’t afford to make mistakes that could disappoint clients. I ensured I was on top of things, always at the hotels where members of the group stayed to ensure nothing went wrong and that their schedule was followed to the letter. With these experiences, I became more confident and applied for bigger contracts. I fully immersed myself in my work, seeking success as I had vowed failure would never again be part of my vocabulary.

In September 2010, another contract to handle a group of MPs from Korea attending a weeklong International Youth Foundation (IYF) celebration in Nairobi came my way. Despite the language barrier, I handled the group very well – the largest my young company had handled up to that point. My company has since grown from strength to strength and I am encouraged by my achievements.

From a proprietorship, Scenery Adventures was incorporated as a limited company this year and I have three partners all of whom have vast experience in tours. They are Ben Irungu, operations manager, Ken Wanjiru, fleet manager and my previous employer, Erlend Vold Engetf.”

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

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Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

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Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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