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When your child stammers

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Stuttering, which is also known as stammering, is a speech disorder that occurs when normal speech is interrupted by the repetition or extension of certain sounds or words. Stammering can range in frequency and intensity from mild to severe and stress can make it worse.

Every child who is learning to talk will stammer at one point or another but in most cases, majority of children outgrow stammering as they learn how to join words and construct sentences. For instance, pre-school age children stammer since they are learning to talk, and although many parents worry about it, most of these children outgrow the stuttering and have normal speech, as they get older. This normal stage of speech development is called psuedostuttering or normal dysfluency. However, speech therapy maybe necessary if the stammering persists after the age of five years.

Causes of stammering…

Although there isn’t any established cause of stammering, it is believed that speech disorder could be as a result of genetic composition. Majority of children who stammer are from families where there is a person who stammers.

Your child could also be suffering from developmental stammering which happens between the age of 18 months to about two years. This is the period when children are learning how to sharpen their speech and language. This form of stammering is only temporary.

Another cause of stammering is neurological where children who stammer process language differently than those without any speech disorder. This maybe due to lack of coordination between the brain, the speech nerves and muscles signals.

Speech therapy classes…

If your child began stammering before they were three and half years, chances are they will outgrow it. However, if he stammers for more than six months, he may not outgrow it and you will need to enroll him in a speech therapy class. Speech therapy boosts your child’s confidence as he learns to manage stammering and improve his speaking skills. It is worth noting that more boys than girls are affected by stammering.

Once you realise that your child has a prolonged speech problem, identify a qualified speech specialist who will conduct the necessary tests and recommend the best way to help your child. In most cases, treatment largely depends on the extent of stammering, and is usually aimed at teaching the child skills, strategies and behaviours that help oral communication.

This involves practicing smooth, fluent speech at a very slow speed by using short sentences and phrases. In a speech therapy class, the child will also be taught how to control and regulate their breathing, so that as he learns to string words and construct sentences, he instinctively knows when to pause.

Helping your child…

As a parent you can also help your child reduce stammering by doing the following:

Create time for your child everyday. Ensure that you spend quality time teaching him simple sentences. You must practice patience by talking to your child slowly and clearly and also giving him the time he needs to finish what he is trying to say. In addition, encourage the other adults in your child’s life to do the same.

Slow down your speech so that it can be easier for your child to follow what you are saying. This will help him feel less rushed as you pay attention when he is communicating with you. You should not show any impatience or irritation when your child is talking to you.

Minimise questions and interruptions when your child is speaking and instead use short and simple sentences, which are easy to understand. Concentrate on what he is saying rather than how it is being said. Even if you know what he intends to say, do not complete the sentences for him, as this will only make him feel inadequate.

Discuss your child’s situation with other people he interacts with, such as his teachers, encouraging them not to exert undue pressure on him.

Remember that stammering does not reflect a person’s level of intelligence or personality, and your child should be encouraged to pursue any career path he wishes.

Published on February 2013

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

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Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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