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WHEN STORMS HIT Lean on God

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Kottia Tsotsi was a newly married hard working young man when storms hit his life and took away three most precious things – his mother, his job and his health. In all the trials and tribulations he has gone through, Kottia has held onto his strong faith. He believes God moves in at your weakest point to imprint His image and authority and carry out His works in you. Kottia narrated his experience to MWAURA MUIGANA.

Kottia Tsotsi was a household name in the local theatre scene until seven years ago. He spent the better part of his life writing, directing and producing stage and audio plays, as well as films. He has directed drama and stage plays at the French Cultural Centre now Alliance Francaise, the National Theatre, German Cultural Centre now Goethe Institute and the American Cultural Centre.

One of his plays, Dilemma, won an award and was translated into German and aired by Radio WDR, Cologne, Germany. It was also published in Germany and in the Anthology of African Radio Plays.

Kottia, a graduate of Christian Leadership University in New Mexico, USA, has also traversed the country and beyond to other African countries producing dramatised audio bibles for Audio Scripture Ministries and the Bible Society of Kenya. He was very passionate about his work, often working several hours in the studio without rest. However, all this came to an abrutpt end when storms hit his life. The last seven years have been hell on earth for him.

When I met him in his house for this interview, he reminded me of Job in the bible. I couldn’t help drawing the parallel. Like Job, Kottia had been deeply involved in the ministry of evangelism and had a good time with God. Like Job, he had been blessed with a good career, doing whatever came his way with great passion.

At the height of his career, Kottia was the programmes director for an American company, Audio Scripture Ministries based in Nairobi and made a lucrative income. His way of showing gratitude to God for all that He had done in his life was immersing himself in the ministry. Like Job, he was tested with his body, family and wealth. One by one he lost everything he cherished, save for his dear wife, Edith Kottia, who has remained steadfast, holding the fort in turbulent moments.

She has taken the mantle since her husband became indisposed and remained the pillar of their home. Despite losing many of the things he treasured, Kottia has remained strong in faith looking up to God for blessings rather than questioning Him for the many trials that have come his way.

The storms in Kottia’s life started on August 25, 2002. He was busy in the studio editing the dramatised audio bible in the Kiswahili language when a friend called and said he was on the way to pick him because he was needed home urgently. He felt anxious and disturbed. His friend took him to his office and the first thing he did once they were seated was to say a prayer. Kottia immediately knew that something was drastically wrong and his friend was the bearer of the bad news. And indeed he was.

Kottia’s mother was one of five women from ACK church, Limuru, who had perished in a road accident on Limuru Road in the outskirts of Nairobi that morning. Her death was not only a big blow to Kottia but also psychologically devastating. He was very close to his mother and could not fathom a life without her. He had also been recently married and was so sad that his mother didn’t live to see his family grow.

To divert his mind from the sadness of losing his mother he immersed himself deeper into his work, often spending twelve hours in the studio without rest. But there was more bad news as he lost his job when the Audio Scripture Ministries, Nairobi, abruptly closed shop. He loved his job and this was another big loss. Now, he not only had to cope with the loss of his dear mother, but also the loss of an income and doing what he loved most – working with a Christian organisation doing editing work.

He got a job with Hope FM as a producer in August 2005 but he had lost his enthusiasm for work. He was also battling a number of health issues, the most disturbing being frequent dizziness episodes. These were accompanied by loss of balance and muscle weakness. He would often bump onto things, sometimes ending up on the floor for no explained reason.

When the muscle weakness deteriorated and walking became a problem, his wife took him to Kenyatta National Hospital (KNH). By this time he had lost his job due to his health issues. Various tests were done, including X-rays but the doctors couldn’t identify what was ailing him. A magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) test also failed to show the problem. The doctors recommended an operation to find out what the problem was but Kottia and his wife decided to seek a second opinion.

They consulted a doctor at the Nairobi Hospital who also ran various tests as he suspected the problem was in his spinal cord. He recommended another MRI to confirm his suspicion. The cost for this was Ksh 25,000, which his wife couldn’t raise alone but friends and family members assisted. However, this MRI did not show anything. They were back to square one without a diagnosis.

He was asked to give the doctor some time to consult with other doctors and in the meantime his wife employed a physiotherapist to help him with mobility and improve blood circulation on his lower body, which had become very weak. But instead of improving, his condition got worse with physiotherapy and they had to stop it.

When they went back to see the doctor he was diagnosed with gradual muscle and nerve collapse. He was completely numb from waist down. He was admitted to hospital for care and treatment of his deteriorating condition. He was discharged when he was well enough to go back home but it was frustrating that he did not know what disease had struck him. He tried all manner of treatments including herbal remedies and when they all failed, he turned to God in prayer.

Kottia figured out that God was the ultimate healer and believed that from Him healing will come. Instead of wallowing in self-pity he decided to use his intact mind and speech to encourage other people. Any one who came to visit him left his house with words of hope and encouragement. He did not allow anyone to pity him.

While his mobility has improved a little as he can move around the house supporting himself on walls and furniture, he is hopeful that one day he will walk again, and also return to work. The journey has been long and traumatising but he is lucky to have his wife Edith who has been at his side all this time.

Published on February 2013

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

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Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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