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Recently, a colleague of mine was so excited because her son was turning six. She posted his picture on social media and wrote how it all made her happy to be alive and experiencing the moment with the most important person in her life. The next day she gathered us at the office to share sweet slices of the birthday cake. I told her she looked different. It must have been the immeasurable joy of seeing life from her own body walk and light up the world.

Every mother – save for the few who abandon their babies – feels the same about her child. It is a gift that brings her so much joy that only she alone understands. This experience has led me to contemplate about the author of all life. The one who made us all and the mother and father of all creation! Christians and many other religions believe that God made heaven and earth and human beings were created by this supernatural, all knowing, all able being. I try to imagine how God must love the sight of each one of his children. He made us in his own image, just as a child grows to resemble his or her parents. We are in the likeness of God. And his love for us is more than that of a mother to her children – imagine!

Now, I imagine the six-year-old boy I mentioned above going to school, living under his mother’s roof and growing up to become a respected member of society. But then, one day he is asked by a TV journalist how he has gotten far in his life, career and the like, and he tells the journalist that it was all his effort. He goes ahead to say his mother cannot be said to have played any role in his upbringing since she was unable to provide for him like other parents did for their children. He goes on to say that his biological mother probably never brought him up since a true mother cannot allow her child to go hungry, catch a cold or grow up in a poor neighbourhood, as he did.

How would his mother feel after watching that clip on TV? Would she call her neighbours in jubilation telling them to “watch my son on television”? Recently, the media carried a story about atheists in Kenya. This is a group of men and women who have come to the conclusion that there is no God. They say the Christian God, who is said to be all knowing; powerful, and loving is only a figment of our imagination. If such an all-knowing God exists, they argue, he must have known terrorists were planning to attack Westgate; worse, being all-powerful, he failed to stop them. A God who has prior knowledge of such an attack and is able to stop it but does not stop it cannot be said to be loving. And if such a God existed, he would stop evil out of his power and love. But since evil persists in spite, it can only be concluded that such an all-powerful, all-knowing and all-loving being, does not exist.

Because there is evil in the world, atheists conclude that there is no God. They also argue that everything that exists must be scientifically verifiable. It has to be seen, smelled, touched or heard. No one has yet seen God let alone touched him. Scientists have located so many galaxies but none has found God’s dwelling. Therefore, the atheists argue, God does not exist.

Funny thing is that atheists believe without scientific proof that there will be tomorrow, for instance. They plan about the future even though no scientist has proof that tomorrow must come. Also, they believe there is no God even though no scientist has conclusively proven that God cannot exist. I decided long ago never to try and convince an atheist about what I believe. I instead dedicate to them the local song by Mwenyehaki and Piston – Wanajua ni kulenga tu (they know but they just ignore).

As for you, who are believers, hold tightly to your faith. Do not argue about understanding God because you even do not understand yourself completely. You don’t even know exactly how much blood you have to begin to pretend that you can fully understand God. Blessed are you who believe without seeing. Be like little children; have uncomplicated faith like the young ones, for the kingdom of God belongs to such. Tragedy is to die believing there is no God, only to find yourself standing before Him once you leave this world.

By Christopher Maina

Published in June 2014

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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