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AMAZING GRACE The Mother of Orphans

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Starting out as a primary school teacher, Dr. Grace Kariuki migrated to the USA where she obtained a PhD and was also ordained as a church minister before founding a Christian ministry where she is a bishop heading 15 churches in Tanzania, seven in Kenya and a bible school. She told her heroic story to MWAURA MUIGANA. 

Dr. Grace Kariuki was an only child who went out of her way to take care of other people’s children, as she prayed to God to give her siblings. When one day she accidentally hurt a child at play she was accused of doing it on purpose. Her parents often had it rough denying accusations that their daughter mishandled other children because they did not have their own. But when she was 12 years old, her parents got her a sister and in quick succession three brothers followed.

In 1982, while in her first at St. Marks Kigari Teachers’ Training College in Embu, Grace became a born-again Christian and a desire to serve God through working with children was fired in her.

“I felt as a teacher, I needed to give more to children. After college I worshipped at the Deliverance Church in Nairobi, which was near my parents home. The pastors noted my calling for children’s work. I was requested to join the Children’s Ministry – the Sunday school – where I was also appreciated as a leader. They immediately promoted me to become the overall Sunday school superintendent,” says Grace.

As she took up her leadership role at the Deliverance Church headquarters in Eastleigh, she brought together teachers in other church branches to train teachers on Sunday school teaching and caring for children. Church workers and pastors were also trained to develop proper curricula. That was the idea that later gave birth to Christian education schools. Deliverance church was also growing and opening other branches throughout the country so Grace and her team of trainers were asked to train in other regions.

“I trained teachers and children workers. We also held conferences for Deliverance and other churches that brought their teachers and workers for training. Many teachers who were trained are now pastors in Deliverance and other churches,” Grace says proudly.

At the time, Sunday school was hosted in mabati structures within church compounds. The church leadership was challenged to start nursery and primary schools. During the week the classrooms would be used to teach children Christian education and Sunday school on Sundays. The church leadership embraced and owned the idea. These became a blessing to parents and communities around the schools where children were taught using the local curriculum with a Christian approach and resulted in the high number of Deliverance Church schools today.

“I often visit the schools and enjoy what God has done through an idea I mooted many years ago,” says Grace.

Starting nursery schools was easy but primary schools were a challenge. Grace took up the challenge in early 1995 and resigned from her job to teach at the then Deliverance Primary School in Zimmerman, Nairobi. It was renamed Cornerstone Deliverance Academy with her as head teacher.

Flying hawker…

Grace wasn’t earning much as a primary school teacher and her husband, Richards Kariuki (now an ordained church minister and manager at Delta Airlines in Washington DC, USA), too did not earn much.

“Every week we went to various places to train teachers, church workers and pastors and I spent my salary on travel. A friend suggested that instead of being broke after mission work, I should start a side business to earn some income. She sponsored me to travel to the UK to buy clothes to sell to my friends, fellow teachers and other people. It sounded a good idea and I took it up. I made three trips to London. The first time I made a profit, and while I loved that, I felt sad that I had skipped my mission work and that probably was not what God wanted me to do. On the second trip I also made some profit but again missed some mission work. I could almost hear God’s voice saying, ‘I didn’t call you to do this…’ On the third trip I made a loss and had to heed God’s voice and concentrate on what He had called me to do,” Grace recalls.

Grace, a mother of two grown children both of who live in the USA – Cynthia, a married mother of two and Alex Kariuki, a civil engineer – received a life-changing telephone call in May 1995. It was from an American woman who had heard her sermon in Zimmerman estate.

“Mama Cynthia,” she told her, calling her by her daughter’s name, “your sharing of the love of Christ with me was not in vain. I’m now a born-again Christian. I’m attending a Christian conference and want you to attend with your whole family. You will only have to meet your travel expenses to the US.”

“We applied and got a five-year visa for my family. It was however expensive for the whole family and I therefore took along only Cynthia,” says Grace. She adds that the International Calvary Pentecostal Tabernacle in Ashland, Virginia, where the conference was hosted in August 1995 was a turning point in her life as it was then that she decided she needed to take care of orphans.

Initially, she was apprehensive because paying school fees for her own children was a problem and taking up the added responsibility would be very challenging. However, she went ahead as “God does not call us to do something easy, He calls us to do what we can’t do entirely on our strength and have to rely on Him.”

She attended the US conference for the second time at the invitation of a Kenyan couple living in Washington DC area during her second year at the Cornerstone Deliverance Academy. She also visited a US Christian school that assisted her to develop a Christian curriculum and was given a lot of teaching material for her school.

When she returned home, an American evangelist she had met at the conference asked her what prayer she had for her own family. She said that they were uncertain of meeting their children’s school fees obligations to provide them with good education. He promised to assist the family relocate to the US as permanent residents so their children could receive a good education. He gave her some money to apply for a US Green Card. They were successful and immigrated to the US in 1998.

In the US, no one was willing to host them as a family. Grace and her family had to go back to a camp in Ashland, Virginia, in which they had first arrived in to start life in the US. Food and accommodation was provided free as long as they stayed in the camp. A US pastor who had been hosted by Grace’s family in Kenya in 1997 learnt of their plight, and with help from his church, hosted them at Wellington Warrenton in Virginia, near Washington DC and helped them to settle and take their children to school. After six weeks they moved out to rent a home, which they eventually bought after living in it for 14 years.

Grace was initially employed as a teacher in a public school for one year but felt she needed more training to effectively minister to children. She had already trained in child evangelism at Daystar University and attended other training programmes on children, but still felt inadequate for the ministry to rescue orphans.

Amazing birth…

She therefore enrolled at the Life Christian University where for the next eight years she undertook her undergraduate, masters and doctorate degrees in theology. After her first year, the university and church she attended, Faith Christian Church under Dr. Decker Tepscot, ordained her as a minister. She was not aware of her Deliverance church in Nairobi having ordained a woman and therefore called her bishop to seek guidance. She was given the green light and the church sent bishops to participate in the ordination in 2001. Thereafter Amazing Grace International Ministries was launched and registered in the US with Grace and her husband as co-founders.

‘Orphans’ in the Diaspora…

Grace was invited to minister and interact with young Kenyan students faced with very challenging circumstances in the US. Their parents had raised funds for the first semester of school after funds drives and after these ran out there was nothing else coming from their parents. Some students failed to attend university due to lack of fees since they held student visas, which do not allow them to work and face deportation if found working. Without support some resorted to drugs while others joined gangs.

Grace reached and continues to reach out to students by overnight prayer (kesha in Kenya). With assistance from other church ministers, she started kesha in different states through which some Kenyan churches in the US were born. Many of these young Kenyans send her to their parents whenever she visits the country. She advises parents not send their children to the US if they will not be able to pay their school fees and support them, as they are likely to face hardships.

Kenyan and African orphans…

Grace started reaching out to orphans in Kenya by first establishing an office in Ngara, Nairobi, in 2002. Later in 2004, Amazing Grace Children’s Home was started in Kasarani’s Kenhurt Estate with eight children, increasing to 120. She got sponsors who helped to start a school at the centre that also enrolled children from the neighbourhood. However, the sponsors later withdrew and the children were transferred to a nearby public school. Grace felt that was not what she wanted for the children since they needed more personalised attention.

Currently, there are 22 children at the centre, which is running at a monthly deficit of Ksh90000 that has to be taken care of before they can take in more needy children and start other children’s centres. Grace raises funds for the centre through her ministry work in the US and Europe.

“There is no way I can call myself a rich woman when there are needy people around me. If I accumulate and not take care of the needy I would be very selfish and inconsequential. I draw strength from the Book of Proverbs 22:9, “He who has a generous eye will be blessed…’ You don’t have to be rich to be generous, all you need is to share what God has given you,” says Grace.

Spiritual ‘orphans’

To give the children a spiritual background, a church, Abundant Glory International Ministries, was established at the centre. The children spend a lot of time in prayer and worship. Some preach and evangelise in other churches, schools and institutions.

After establishment, the centre attracted a lot of attention from young pastors, some of who desired to start similar orphanages. The pastors requested Grace to counsel them, saying they had orphans possibly worse off than those in the orphanage. Any time she visited Kenya she would receive so many requests and visitors that it became difficult to concentrate on the children.

“I would receive several pastors from Kenya, Uganda and Tanzania asking me to counsel, pray for and help them, while others requested me to be their spiritual mother. I realised there are also spiritual orphans who I could not turn away. Today our ministry is especially for people who feel they want to become pastors but have no spiritual authority they can submit to. This has resulted in the establishment of seven churches in Kenya under Abundant Glory Ministries International. We have 16 Amazing Grace International Ministries churches, a Bible school in Tanzania and one church in the offing in Uganda,” says Grace who is author of Amazing Blessings for Destiny Connectors.

Home sweet home…

Grace asserts that no child should grow up in an orphanage; the best environment is with their own relatives. She has been working hard to find the parents and relatives of children in her orphanage so they can claim their inheritance. It has emerged that some relatives are rich; a grandmother recently drove into the centre to rescue her grandchild. The child had apparently been dumped at the home by relatives to prevent her from claiming her inheritance.

The centre, which is run by a nine-member board of directors, is appealing to well wishers to contribute to or donate land to put up a home for the children. A major fundraiser is scheduled for April 1st, 2012.

Contacts:

Amazing Grace Children’s Centre

P. O. Box 644-00600 Nairobi

Tel: 540-351-071

0729425151 or 0721701298

www.agracem-org

Email: agracem.org@gmail.com

Published in January 2012

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

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Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

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Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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