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When curiosity ALMOST killed the cat

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Charles Mwangi’s curiosity led him closer to a police security operation, oblivious of the danger that lurked behind. Like the proverbial cat, he was almost killed. He became the victim of a stray bullet. He recounts events of that fateful day and lessons learnt to WANGARI MWANGI.  

For most of 2007, media reports were awash with stories of criminal activities of the Mungiki sect, an illegal political-religious group accused of extortion and luring jobless young men into its fold. The group had devised a way of making income by threatening to behead matatu operators and owners of homesteads who defaulted on their daily cash payment to members of the sect, in what was dubbed as protection fee.

The group unleashed terror on anyone who failed to play by their rules, thereby harming many innocent Kenyans. A week hardly went by without news report of gruesome murders purportedly carried out by the sect members. This prompted the then minister for internal security, the late John Michuki, to issue an order that would see police officers carry out random police operations to flush out the killer gang.

With the police patrols intensified, it wasn’t uncommon to come across armed policemen in uniform and civilian clothes, patrolling the streets and estates in search of Mungiki suspects. The situation was not any different in Nairobi’s Kahawa West estate, where 32-year-old Charles Mwangi lived.

An innocent look…

When the sound of gunshots rent the air one day in August 2007 in his neighbourhood, Mwangi could almost guess that police had gunned down a Mungiki suspect. He had just finished his lunch at a café near Mahiga Primary School opposite Kamiti Maximum Prison in Kiambu County. But when the second gunshot went off, Mwangi and other clients in the café got curious. “It was rare to hear gunshots at lunch hour so when the sound of a second one went off, I suspected something was amiss. My curiosity led me outside to check,” he says.

He first saw police officers in civilian clothes with their pistols pointed to the sky. Then his attention was drawn to the school-going children who were walking home from the nearby school. He remembered that it was nearing the end of school term and pupils were usually released from school earlier than normal. And when the third gunshot went off, Mwangi’s fatherly instincts got the best of him.

“I only recall running towards a young boy who appeared confused by the sound of gunfire. Minutes later I was on the ground wounded,” says Mwangi who didn’t immediately notice he had been shot as he was not in pain. A bullet pierced right through his knee, missing the knee joint by a whisker. It was only when the gathered crowd of onlookers started pointing at the pool of blood oozing from his leg that he realised he had been shot.

He says the policemen arrested two men randomly before taking off in the police van that had been waiting. “The policemen didn’t bother despite noticing they had shot me. The onlookers were helpless and didn’t know how to assist me,” Mwangi explains.

Some people in the crowd offered Mwangi some first aid to prevent further bleeding by tying his leg with a piece of cloth, while others were making efforts to take him to hospital. In the meantime, the officer in charge of the nearby Kiamumbi police post got wind of the news that a man had been accidentally shot by the police and came to the scene accompanied by two other policemen. They took Mwangi to the police station to record a statement before taking him to Kiambu District Hospital for treatment.

In pursuit of justice…

Though he didn’t have any fractures, he couldn’t move the injured leg for three months in what turned out to be a painful healing experience. The injury left scars that will forever remind him of his brush with death.

His efforts to get justice were futile as he was asking the same policemen who shot him to follow up the matter. By the time he was reasonably healed to start following up the matter, he discovered the officer who had recorded his statement had been transferred and his statement could not be found.

“The police officers who shot me still worked at Kiamumbi police post. I felt helpless asking the perpetrators to provide me justice. After several trips to the police station, I gave up. At some point I started getting threats on my phone to stop pursuing the matter. I even relocated to Murang’a fearing for my life, as the anonymous messages seemed to suggest I was a suspected Mungiki sect follower who deserved to be shot,” explains Mwangi.

Mwangi, like many other innocent victims of police shooting is unhappy that he didn’t find justice. Though aware of his legal rights, he says it is very difficult for the ordinary Kenyan to pursue justice, especially when they don’t have money to pay for legal help. But he learnt several lessons from this experience, the most important being to try to stay safe at all times.

Lessons learnt…

If we lived in a perfect world where you didn’t have to worry about any threats on your life when you are up and about, then you wouldn’t have to take any precautions. But unfortunately we live in a world where danger looms everywhere. If you are caught up in a situation where you sense real danger, the rule of thumb is to stay clear, if you can, and only fight if you must.

If you don’t have a clear exit to run out of danger, look for a place to hide. Don’t worry about rescuing your belongings; just worry about your life. If you find an escape route and there are other people with you, try to get as many to flee with you as possible.

If the incident involves shooting, your best bet is to remain on the floor and not to run as moving makes you an easy target. If the shooting is random, barricade yourself behind large solid objects like columns and stay clear of windows and doors. Don’t scream or call for help as doing this gives away your location.

Don’t allow curiosity to put you in dangerous situations. For example, when there is a shootout, avoid going to the direction of gunfire. If police ask you to get down or stay away, do so without arguing. They are trying to keep you safe. If you suffer gunshot wounds, focus on fighting for your life. Don’t panic as you wait for help to arrive. Don’t try to move if the shooter is still within range, and sometimes it may help to play dead.   wangari@parents.co.ke

Published in September 2014

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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