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Tips for a low-cost Valentine’s Day

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Valentine’s Day is synonymous with fancy dinners, boxes of chocolate, bottles of champagne and bouquet of flowers among other goodies lovebirds exchange to show their love for each other. However, with the biting economic times, many people are careful not to dig deep into their pockets. Here are some tips to help you to have a superb but cheap Valentine’s Day this year.

Be creative: Most of us like to spend time with those who mean the world to us on Valentine’s Day. Be creative and make worthy memories out of the time spent together. For instance, you can watch a romantic movie together or give each other a massage among other things that will make your partner feel appreciated.

It’s all about being creative about things you can do to make an impact in your loved one’s life. If you are in a long-distance relationship, make the effort to be with your loved one and if this is not possible, do a video call.

Celebrate it a day after: Prices of many Valentine-themed products are exaggerated on this day, as demand is high. Beat the system at its game by either buying gifts a week or two earlier or postponing the celebrations to a day after Valentine’s.

Going out for a meal or buying gifts a few days to a week later will allow you to save a good amount of money. It is important to discuss this with your partner to make sure they are in for the idea.

Don’t eat in a restaurant: If you were to take your partner out on a date, it wouldn’t be in some cheap hotel where you usually hop in for a quick lunch. No, it has to be a fancy place that befits the day and this can be quite expensive. Cut costs by doing a homemade meal instead of dining out.

While at it, make it more fancy than an ordinary night’s dinner by creating a romantic ambience at the dinner table with flowers, candles and lighting.

Plan a low-cost date: Sometimes experiences are better than gifts so instead of buying gifts, do things together such as watching the sunset, sitting outside under the moon, or dancing to the tune of your favourite music right in you house. The key is to make your partner feel special. Expensive gifts help, but they are not better than meaningful experiences that show your lover you care.

Compare prices before you buy a Valentine’s gift: You might have all the good intentions in wanting to get your loved one the best gift there is but unfortunately your pocket won’t just allow it. Even as you settle for an inexpensive gift, still take time to compare prices in different stores and you might end up saving some money.

Go for discounted prices: For instance, you can book in advance to watch a movie or a play. Most of the times those who book early get discounted tickets. Also, some hotels and stores sometimes offer discounted prices on certain goods to attract shoppers on Valentine’s Day. Take advantage of such offers.

Focus on what matters: Focus on what really matters to both of you. If spending quality time together matters, then focus on making the day special by engaging in fun activities together. Go for a hike, visit a nearby park, do a picnic, or go on a road trip. Along with saving you money, this will eliminate some of the hassles that come with celebrating the day like everyone else.

Discuss it with your date: When all is said and done, whatever effort you put on this day is meant to please your significant other. You, therefore, need to let them know your motives and agree on the plans for the day.

This will help you avoid disappointment and also eliminate any misunderstanding that might occur. Agree that you will not compare your plans with other couples and instead focus on making the most out of your plans and working within your budget.

Published in February 2017

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

READ ALSO: Crucial Facts About Endometriosis Everyone Should Know About

Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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