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Mwihaki Muraguri: Highlighting positive African stories

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Mwihaki Muraguri is the founder of Paukwa House, an organisation that is passionately devoted to representing and sharing positively inspired African stories to counter the dominant negative social stereotypes on Africa. She speaks with MONICA MBOGO on her purpose to reclaim the African narrative.

Mwihaki Muraguri grew up in a household of avid readers hence words effortlessly come to her. The first-born in her family, she yearned to study video editing, a little known course then. Her parents dismissed her request and insisted she pursue a ‘serious degree’. Gutted, she opted to major in economics and geography with the hope that it will eventually land her in the environmental field.

“When I completed my Bachelors, I searched for a job in my field in vain. I thereafter landed a job with AMREF to run a volunteer program. I was now working in the health field, something that was never in my radar,” she shares.

This meant that her love for writing and creative arts would take a back burner as she immersed herself in the world of public health and development that spurned more than 20 years.

“By 2015, I had gotten used to my work and nothing excited me anymore. I needed to do something different. A friend challenged me to take a writing course and I did. The course reignited my love for writing and from there I started blogging furiously,” she says.

In the process, she decided to apply for a fellowship for mid-career professionals. The application process required one to describe a project they would undertake and to her disappointment, her mind was blank. The night before the due date, she experienced an aha moment and thus put down what would be the beta version of Paukwa Storyhouse.

Leaning on her passion for storytelling, she wanted to create a platform where positive aspects of Kenyan history and contemporary life would be celebrated. Sadly, the application did not go through but she now knew what she wanted to do going forward.

She decided to hone her storytelling muscles and applied for a storytelling fellowship that was so competitive she couldn’t get in at first. Determined not to be left out, she called the organizing body and argued her case.

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“My efforts paid off and I got into the fellowship,” avers the mom of three.

Her aim was to get empowered with resources and knowledge to enable her share factual, positive African stories unapologetically and since charity begins at home, she would start with Kenya.

“African storytellers need to contribute to what the Internet knows, sees and understands of Africa. Less than five per cent of content on the web is generated in Africa. If our languages, identities and faces are not there, then soon Africa will be deemed non-existent,” she explains emphatically.

She adds that there is a dominant, narrowed narrative that Kenyan children are exposed to such as corruption, insecurity and terrorism yet Kenya has such a rich heritage. Through stories, Paukwa uncovers and unlocks a wider appreciation of Kenyan history.

“Until the story of the hunt is told by the lion, the tale will always glorify the hunter. We focus on Kenya because we can either have other people tell our stories or we can tell our stories the way we want them told,” she elaborates

The storytelling process entails doing interviews and sourcing information from the crowd while going through media and personal archives. She encourages young people willing to take up storytelling as a career to go for it as preexisting barriers are no longer there.

With an already existing digital mindset, Paukwa is planning to finally incorporate young people and put the expanded version of their website with more animated features for kids just like the already existing alphabet with a Kenyan twist on YouTube.

Paukwa also provides storytelling training, emcee, writing, photo and film documentation services for clients; and curates and delivers positive content about Kenya through digital media channels as its social mission.

This article was first published in the January 2020 issue of Parents.

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

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Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Elizabeth Nzisa: The Firstborn Who Became a Mother Overnight

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While most teenagers spend their days focused on school, friendships, and dreams for the future, Elizabeth Nzisa, fondly known as Shiku, was forced to grow up much faster than she ever imagined. At only 17 years old, she found herself taking on the role of a mother to her three younger siblings after her family was hit by tragedy not once, but twice.

Her story, shared in an emotional interview, is a powerful reflection of strength, sacrifice and the deep bond between siblings. Elizabeth recalls the moment her life changed completely. Her mother died while giving birth to their youngest sibling, a baby boy. In the middle of that painful loss, their father walked away from the family, leaving Elizabeth alone with a newborn and two other young children to care for.

Mama yetu alipass 2024, Feb. Alipass akipata haka katoto kadogo. Dad naye akatuacha akaenda

 

Becoming a Mother Too Soon

She explains that she had no choice but to step up and become the parent in the house. She raised her youngest brother from the day he was born, and to this day he calls her mum, not knowing she is actually his big sister. That detail alone shows how much responsibility she carried at such a young age. She became the provider, the protector, the caregiver, and the emotional support for her siblings while she was still trying to understand life herself. With little help from relatives, Elizabeth had to find ways to survive, balancing school when she could, doing small jobs and making sure her siblings were fed, safe and loved.

The journey was not easy. She faced financial struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to stay strong even when she felt overwhelmed. There were moments when she doubted herself and wondered if she was doing enough. Still, her story is not about defeat. It is about endurance. Elizabeth talks about finding strength through faith, support from the people around her, and the determination to keep her family together no matter how hard things became.

Over the years, she made sure her siblings stayed in school, had food on the table, and grew up feeling loved despite everything they had lost. What could have been a completely broken home became a family held together by her sacrifice and commitment.

Many viewers reacted emotionally, saying the story moved them to tears. Some described firstborn daughters as second mothers, while others said her life shows the kind of courage people rarely see but should never forget.

 

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Endometriosis and sex: How to make intimacy pain-free

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There is no doubt that endometriosis can affect a woman’s way of life. The condition slews a couple of conditions, painful sex being one of them. Penetration pulls and pushes any tissue growth behind the vagina and lower uterus.

Although symptoms may differ from woman to woman, here are some things you can do to lessen your pain and ensure you have some good time:

Take a dose of painkillers

Take an over the counter painkiller that sits well with your body before intercourse and incase pain persists, take another one as prescribed.

Track your cycle and try at certain times of the month

Most women with endometriosis experience excruciating pain during their period and ovulation. Keep track of your cycle so that you can know when you are ovulating. You can use apps like my calendar and flo period tracker to track your periods. This will help you know when best to engage in sexual intercourse.

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Use lube

Vaginal dryness is not something to be ashamed of and if you happen to have it, lube should be your best buddy. Make sure to use any silicon or water based lubricant anytime you feel like your vagina is dry. Ensure the application is of good amount to achieve a wet area.

Explore alternatives

Talk with your partner about things that turn you on and bring you pleasure. Just to mention a few; mutual masturbation, foreplay, kissing and mutual fondling. Sex does not have to mean intercourse.

Try different positions

Experimenting different positions can teach you and your partner which ones hurt and the ones that bring direct pleasure with no or less pain. Positions that are considered better vary from person to person so take the time to explore and learn yourself with your partner.

Find the right rhythm

Finding the right rhythm can help you experience less discomfort during sex. Quick thrusting or deep penetration can aggravate pain. Talk to your partner about that which you do not like and find ways that will satisfy the both of you like exchanging positions so that you can control the speed and rhythm.

Bottom line

Intimacy does not have to be boring, painful or make you hate the condition that you have. Talk openly about your feelings around sex and penetration and what would help to ease your concerns.

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